I have a proublem in school and i would like to stop it but....?

Question

There is a group of boys that push me and shove me and the call me names. I know pressure points and i was wondering if i should hurt them but i dont want to get in trouble. I have told my teacher but he has done nothing.

Answer 1

I'll tell you what NOT to do first. Do NOT snitch / tell a teacher. ESPECIALLY do not tell your mom or dad. Your school mates will call you a mama's boy, and a teacher's pet if you do so.

What I noticed in bullies is that they are really cowards. They ONLY start **** if they have their homies backing them up by their side. And ususally only when you're alone, to give themselves a clear advantage against you.

I know this doesn't sound "fair" but sometimes you have to be unfair to get the respect you want; the respect you deserve! You might feel like, "well they're not doing anything to me while I'm alone. I only want to do something if they do something to me first." But they will not do anything to you while you are alone. Get the weakest one of the group alone, make sure there are no teachers or faculty staff around. Push him while he least expect it and fight him there! He'll be so scared shitless that he doesn't have his homeboys there to back him up! Then do the same to the rest of them! That's how you earn respect, and your school mates will give you praise for showing great power and defending yourself.

Even if you lose, you might get some good hits in.. AND even if you don't get good hits, at least you'd be standing up for yourself.

Also, don't worry about getting in trouble. You're in real school, the WORST that can happen to you is you getting suspended for 3 or 4 days. It's better to stand up for yourself in real school, cuz as soon as you turn 18, you can't stand up for yourself 'cuz you'll go to JAIL! Jail is a LOT worst than getting suspended where all your video games are. Plus compare 4 days to 3 months!

Answer 2

Yea, do whatever you can to take them down.

If the school doesn't get on to them for hurting you, then why would they get on to you for defending yourself??

Answer 3

Violence is not the answer. You know this which is why you are even asking before you do it. This double standard bs when it comes to guys being picked on is nonsense. You don't get to fight back just because you are a boy. And "snitching" is the perfectly acceptable solution. If we all stood up for ourselves in a responsible manner, then these problems wouldn't be so unclear. Talk to your parents. They will try and talk with you about the best solution, but if your parents say nothing, the teacher won't do something, talk to the principal. The principal can't let it continue.

Answer 4

You can't tell because it will just make it worse. My son is having problems like this and I told him to punch the kid in the face, he'll quit......If I was nine years old I'd beat the little b*****d myself, Oh, did I say that out loud :  )  sorry

Answer 5

go for it. You have tried telling the teacher and got no where. Stand up for yourself and if you get in trouble calmly explain you told the teacher and nothing was done and you couldn't take it anymore. Be calm not yelling. Sometimes you have to take things into your own hands and then they will leave you alone

Answer 6

I wish you would have included the grade you're in. I always taught both of my girls the 123 strikes and you're out rule.

1. Tell a teacher

2. Tell the principal

3. Tell your parents

If none of these help (I would think one of them would) anything is fair game. Defend yourself in any way you need to.  I would suggest you try 123 first. Never start a fight unless you have no other choice. Don't let anyone bully you either!  Best of luck.

Answer 7

Have you talked to your parents?  I would see if my parents could go and talk to the teacher.  Also try telling your counselor at school.  BULLIES ARE NO GOOD!

Answer 8

First of all: Don't snitch. If you tell on them they will only get even more mad. You should get a larger group of friends and if they shove you then jump them.

Answer 9

taLK to you parents firs if you have said anything badd to them tell your parents so if they have to call the school or come in and the boys say well he did this... they will alaredy no what to do also tomorow try to stay near a adault and friend or anyone till everything is taken care of so you can have proof if they do any thing else your doing the right thing keep it up, never start a fight you have the right to defend yourself but not start a fight, by the way defense in a fight is not beet the p**p oout of them it means minimal contact and than tell a nearest addault if the ever touch you yell screem and make it clear you dont like it you will be ok

also it helps to say wa grade your in

Answer 10

Try to get the leader alone...away from buddies and then ask if he has a problem...and then pressure point the little coc# su*ker

Answer 11

time to get some buds...     and fork them a new r****m muscle in the playground.

or trap them in a corner...     time to kick their collective A$$es.     they're bullies...   they're all tough when they're in groups...

or get one when he's alone..   and rack him a new set of nay nay's in the boy's bathroom.

your teacher is a little coward.. they don't get paid enough to care... as you are well seeing.

if you can get to his neck and punch where his larynx is... then you got him in a big way.   if he's a big boy..  (any of them.)  go right for the cabanas.. (his groin)  and clamp down hard with your hands... don't let go....   a first time offense will not be looked upon as important.

Answer 12

Well Hinata i think you should hit them but try to do it when a teacher is not looking that would probley be the best thing to do but if you are one of the goody goodys then maby try telling them to stop first be nice then be a little ferm and the third time KNOCK their block off. Oh and PS> tell and adult besides your teacher.

Answer 13

yes you should they wont stop in tell you make them. i tell my boys if they hit you first and you ask them to stop and they don't then go for it, and i tell them they will not get in trouble on our end us the one that will not hurt them long term so you wont get into to much trouble like the other person said keep your cool

  good luck don't take no-ones c**p

Answer 14

Never hurt any one back what if you really hurt them there is no way to take that back. If you teacher is not doing any thing go above her and keep going up till some one hears you.

Answer 15

try and get the leader away from everyone then kick his f****n a** use those pressure point stuff on him then run like h**l because when he gets up and his friends come then chase after you and kick your ***.   Oh yeah DONT TELL THE TECHERS it will make your life h**l lol good luck

Answer 16

Most schools have a no bully policy. Talk to you teacher again. If that doesn't work, either go to the Principal yourself or have your parents do it if you are uncomfortable with it.

If you decide to hurt them (and they seriously get hurt) you would be the one in trouble, not them. I understand your frustration, but you need to follow proper channels.

Good luck!