I don't really want a debate, I just am confused about something. We don't know if we're having a boy or girl, but if we have a boy my husband doesn't want to circumcise.
My husband was born in 1979. He wasn't circumcised, to quote my mother in law, because "all the little babies screamed so hard and they were in so much pain I couldn't do it to him."
He wasn't circumcised, but he was STRETCHED: (I wince when I think of this) the doctor took a long, thin blunt instrument, and put it deep down between his p***s and f******n, and ran it around the p***s quickly. Apparently that made him scream and cry and he was very sore. The doctor did this so the p***s could be cleaned- then, even on such a little baby, my mother in law could slide his f******n down and clean him. My mother in law says that if you don't retract a baby's f******n and clean the p***s scrupulously, the baby boys get infections.
I've never heard of this. My mother in law insists that she looked after my husband's cousin, and they didn't clean under the baby's f******n and he got a horrible infection.
I have been reading that you are never to retract an uncircumcised baby's f******n, that it can damage it and cause the bacteria to multiply, that the p***s and f******n are self cleaning.
Have you ever heard of "stretching" a newborn's p***s with an instrument like that? And is it true that you have to pull down a baby's f******n to clean it?
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