I have a question for men? Does it turn you off when a women has a child?

Question

Would you just lose all interest if she had a kid?

Answer 1

no way....a women having a child can be a very wonderful time that may not come around again, enjoy the feelings you get and all of the perks along with it....good luck

Answer 2

It don't turn me off, but it does send up a red flag if a single woman has a child that she doesn't make very good decisions about her life.  That I am willing to work around after all every one makes mistakes however it is a red flag to me. I wouldn't want my wife making mistakes about s*x with other men while being married to me.

Answer 3

Of course not...it wouldn't change loving her.  

Answer 4

The answer is in the question. Hopefully you are seeking a real man.

Answer 5

I still am turned on by my wife and we have a child.  If you are referring to single men being turned off by a woman with a child, I wouldn't want to get into a relationship with a woman who has a child if I was single.  There just seems to be the perception of too much baggage (i.e. baby's biological father would still be a part of the scene; kid may resent you for trying to take his father's place, etc).  Whether or not that's true, it is the perception.

Answer 6

I met my wife when her son was 10, and married when he was 12. We have been married for 13 years. However, it has been quite a challenge to be in the role of stepparent.

Answer 7

Well if they did..........would you really want them in your life? Your child(ren) should ALWAYS be your first priority, and if you are dating a man who has a problem with your kid, then he has a problem with you because your child is a part of you! ~Good luck~

Answer 8

It depends on the situation. I married my wife...she had a 9 year old daughter. Now she is 14. Wife has had a son for me (now 3) and is expecting any day a daughter for me. It does make it a little more complicated when kids from previous relationship. I was approved by her daughter before anything too serious was going on (so that helped). I love both. 14 year old loves her brother and can't wait for her sister to come...the word "step" does not exist in the house. It can get tricky especially with bio dad. He's far away I provided cell phone for her to talk to him and try not to interfere with him...I know he loves her...I have never met or spoken to him...and if she takes from him...that means he must be a good person...she's awesome. I feel lucky to have had her at 9 (feel bad for him that he has missed out on so much) and wish I had known her earlier as an infant. Take Care

Answer 9

I am single & middle aged. If a woman has a kid that's under say 14 yeah its a turn off to me. Yeah I know its a package deal and all of those cliches but the fact is I want a woman that I can sleep with & go out and do things with. I don't want to go to school plays or kids baseball games etc. Call me selfish but I have already raised my kids.

Last week a guy asked that same question & the majority of the women said they would not date a guy with kids. Wonder why guys answer different?

Answer 10

watch the Maury show

Answer 11

My guy has no kids and he is 30 and I have two kids and I am 22. It doesn't bother him and if it did then too bad for him because he would be without me because my kids come first and I am the best thing that has ever happened to him hands down.

Answer 12

It's neither a turn on nor a turn off. It simply is.

Answer 13

i am accually attracted t owomen with kids or kid. it shows how strong you guys are and to me it is a huge turn on.