I have a question for you. We don't want to seem rude at our party.?

Question

Okay my friend and I have really close birthdays, so we are having a SWEET 14. It is Hollywood themed. Were inviting everyone in our grade, and what is going to happen is the huge dance hall (not like baby shower feeling, it is just one huge room with a HUGE dance floor and it has a window wall that overlooks the beach). So would it be rude if everyone is waiting outside for the party. Then the limo shows up with me, my friend, and 6 VIPs and we walk down the red carpet. Is that kind of rude? Or is it okay?

I also want to know, what kind of decorations?

Answer 1

Everyone in your class? I hope you go to a small school. Good lord, you're 13 for goodness sakes! Limo? Dance hall? VIPs? This is ridiculous. I'm not trying to be mean, but how self centered are you? I know it's a theme, and I know you're excited for your party, but come on. Skip the limo, skip the red carpet, and donate the money you would have spent on it to a homeless shelter or something. Really, I think it would make you feel great. And before you go thinking I'm some adult who "doesn't understand" what you're trying to do, I'm not. I'm 14, too. I wouldn't go to this party. Talk about a pathetic waste of money. People like you really get me worked up, sorry. It's not just you, you're probably a great person. I'm just taking my anger out on you, and I'm sorry. That doesn't change my opinion, though.

Oh, to answer your question, yeah I think it would be rude. I wouldn't want to stand outside.

Answer 2

It's kind of flashy and trashy, but that would fit in well w/ the Hollywood theme. However, I suggest not having the "VIP's" with you, because that is just rude to the rest of the people that are attending. Have a good time.

Answer 3

Just dont leave them out there too long

Answer 4

If you can afford a limo then I think it's a great idea, maybe you could invite some of your friends to be members of the press or photographers as well. Just don't be late or they will get fed up.

Answer 5

Save it for your Sweet 16. No one cares about turning 14 and all the pomp and circumstance just seems trashy.

Answer 6

Not to be rude but i remember when i was kid trying to be cool and fit in and I think that is what the limo is all about you want everybody to see you get out of it so that they will think Oh my gosh look at her. It shouldnt be like that honey either they like you for who you are or they dont. But dont make them wait outside just for that.

Answer 7

i think this kind of extravagance for 14 year olds is ridiculus. What do you have to look forward to when you are adults? What will be your motivation to become anything or anyone if you have lived a full life and achieved such opulence at age 14?

Answer 8

I would let your friends all be inside then make your grand entrance into the party room. Granted, none of the kids from school would get to see you in a limo, but renting a limo is not going to be cheap and the whole part where people actually see you getting out of it will last all of 2 minutes, if not less.

I also agree that if you have the six VIP's, it may make everyone else at the party feel a little excluded. So save money on the limo, save the feelings of your friends, and let you and your close-birthday-buddy make a fashionably late grand entrance!