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Well the other day I was talking to my friend Dylan, and I told him about this guy I know that was scaring me by asking very sexual and personal questions. He asked my why I was so scared about it and why it was so uncomfortable for me, and I told him "Because I'm not like that" (Like I really hate sharing my personal life with the world, and answering questions that make me feel uncomfortable. I am really shy and definately would not "do anything" sexually related). So he says "Well you better start being like that. They may love you, but they also want to do stuff with you." Him saying that kind of made me feel like if im not "easy" then no guy would ever like me.

Is this true? Is that all that guys want? Girls that will go far with them?

Please only answer if you are a teenager, I don't want answers like "Don't even go there. Wait until you are thrity so you can have commitment."

Thanks!

Answer 1

its not true. sure there are guys out there that just want s*x from a girl but there are guys that don't only care about s*x.  

Answer 2

No, he obvously isnt a real friend. Good for you for waiting for the right guy.

Hope that helped!!!! :D

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Answer 3

wow, Dylan gave you a pretty crappy answer. but also painfully honest.

anyways, my experience from having lots of younger friends;

i'm constantly hearing about how Boy_X is so sweet and wonderful and great... then next week he's all about getting in her pants, and the week after that he's off with some other girl who's pants he -did- get in.

so Dylan's answer is unfortunately for the most part, accurate. young men are driven by instinct towards girls. and settling down and forming a cozy lovey-dovey relationship isn't instinct. s*x is.

which isn't to say you can't find a decent guy. just that it's extremely rare at your age, and doesn't get much better till mid-20's or so.

best bet might be to try looking at the guys who -aren't- after the girls; ie the ones bucking the instinct. not to say that going after them won't awaken it.. but yea, in the end, the cliches we hear because cliches because there's truth to it.

as a footnote; you may just happen to know a creepy guy who doesn't really understand this whole 'tact' thing very well. but the rest of this is still true.