I have a really bad life, i don't know how long i can go on, help!?

Question

Well, my dad is a little alcoholic and kind of abusive, my mom does nothing for me, she and my dad got divorced a while ago, my mom, sister, and dad blame it on me. I am 13, and my sister accuses me of things i never do, she hates me and spreads all kinds of rumors about me at school. I can't talk to my parents because their the main problem, and everyone is just trying to hurt me, mentally or physically. It's even gotten so bad that my mom puts her cigarettes out on me. Actually i remember one Christmas my dad got a bee bee gun for me...That night when i fell asleep he shot me with it. I have one friend i THINK i can actually trust, but he lives in another city. I cut myself and it feels sooo good, i can stop anytime i want. But it's like, when i'm cutting all i feel is the pain of a simple blade, it is much less of a burden then everything else. I am on the verge of suicide and have no idea what to do....Please help!

Answer 1

Pretty please-

Talk to a school counseler, see a therapist, stop cutting this moment and get yourself together.

You know you've got a crazy dad and a mom who does nothing for you.

Go to a neighbor, anyone and talk to them, get help. Just don't kill yourself. Be a leader, and dont take your parents ****.

By the way, Im not sure if this willl work but see this website. It may help-

http://www.childline.org.uk/Pages/defaul...

Answer 2

well sociel services, or some goverment agency is probably the best idea. your sister and school proplems arent as bad, the rumors just ignore and laugh at (takes practice) and find some way to deal with your sister, or just turn it into a game and retaliate. as for the cutting well you know why you do it, to deal with your proplems, there are better ways to deal with it though, exercising is handy, using distractions such as music or books or games helps, having a lacky band and flicking urself with it instead of cutting is a method thats meant to work. i would suggest seeing a psych or a counsellor in fact i do suggest it. if you ever want advice or just to talk feel free to email or IM me, im always willing to talk. good luck.

Answer 3

there is always a way out to problems if ur parents r doin u harm then move out to other family members or talk to ur friends parents and tell them about ur problem or try to look for some free support numbers to see if they can help to sort out a solution for you. You have to be strong if u commit suicide u'll only make ur friend and those who really care for u suffer and u have to know that many ppl out there go thru this too like a cuz of mines when she was ur age she was goin thru the same problems her father used to punch her in the face and she used to cut herself, she stop cuttin herself and her father cant touch her because police would put him in jail because of the accusations she made to the police.

Answer 4

by law, your parents would have been arrested for felony child abuse and you probably would have been removed from the home. my only concern about you being removed from the home is if you end up in foster care. i've heard way too many horror stories about foster families.

is there another relative you can live with? if you tell the authorities (call the police) and if another family member would be able to raise you, you might be able to live with them.

your situation is really really bad. if absolutely nothing else, just remember that YOU are RIGHT and THEY are WRONG. it  sounds like you already know that though.

so first figure out if there is someone else you can live with. then, the next time one of your parents is physically abusive....and that means ANY harmful contact with your body .... call the police.

Answer 5

You first need to find somebody that you trust to talk to. Then you need to seek some counseling. Your church or your school should be able to direct you to somebody competent to help you.

Answer 6

You SERIOUSLY need to call a hotline! Call 1-800-273-8255. Tell them about your situation and they can deffinately help you. If you parents treat you like that you don't need to be living with them. And STOP cutting yourself because that is the worst thing you can do. Please call the hotline. Get help.

Answer 7

If you can, see a doctor and talk with them about your living situation, how you feel, what you think of it, what kind of living conditions you are in.  He/she may refer you to a psychiatrist who will perform a number of simple question and answer tests and they will help to diagnose the problem for you and perhaps give you the help that you need.

Answer 8

You do not have to live this way.  I was emotionally and physically abused by both my parents and at 13 years old went into foster care.  I had a great family!  I am 27 years old now and if it was not for me leaving I am sure that I would be dead.

Talk to someone at school and they will contact CPS.  Best of luck!!!

Answer 9

Tell someone who really cares if this is the real deal.

Answer 10

if this is seriously going on, you need to tell a teacher at your school asap.  they will be able to place you with a family that will take care of you and give you all the things that you deserve as a child.  do it!!!  tell an adult!!!

Answer 11

call social services. It may seem like the last thing you want to do but your situation is serious and they can help get you out of it. If not then at least call a suicide hotline, they're anonomous and help a lot. And stop cutting yourself, that doesn't help anything.   Good luck

Answer 12

Try to visit a church. You may not to trust in God, but there, in the church, you will find a little conciliation. Of course you have to endure your family till you are grown up.

Answer 13

OMG! Never heard about this!! But i 100% totally belive you!!

All you can do is just go to your aunt/grandfather/grandmother or uncle.. tell them about ur sittuation or call a helping line!! They will help you for sure :) CHEAR UP A BIT!

Answer 14

Here's a website that can help. There are some numbers you can call. DON'T wait around. Call them! Someone will help you.

Good luck!

http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/fam...

Answer 15

When you say you can stop anytime you want,your in denial and you wont be able to stop.Try talking to a counselor (yea,sounds stupid but just try) they can help you! If you have any relatives maybe you could live with them. Their are people that can help you if you want them to.If your parents are abusive,their is people you can call and they will find you somewhere else to live..it may be a good idea.Don't do anything that you will regret (though, cutting yourself,you will regret later on).

If you need help with anything,e-mail me okay?

Good Luck♥

Answer 16

1at you a re young still try to pass that no matter what find a job there must be one around or ask help to the government  

Answer 17

You must talk to your parents and tell them stop treating you like this. You pick what nursing home they goto. Basically confronting them and tell them whats up, hopefully they will understand.