I have a serious confidance issue, please help me (PICS)?

Question

I am really self conscious about my looks.

I have never being an outgoing person filled with confidance but i am slowly becoming more and more shy and insecure; i hate this and i want to change as it is effecting my life a lot now since i havnt got the confidance to do things i would love to do.

i just dont know what to do with myself anymore.

I am not in anyway fishing for compliements i just want some opinions and advice how i can sort myself out as i am at a really low point in my life at the moment.

Please dont be nasty,

thanx in advance

http://www.flickr.com/photos/28409398@N04/2650649266/

(this photo was take about 2/3 months ago).

Answer 1

You have no reason to be unconfident. Unless you've gained like 200 pounds or became bald since that last picture you really have no reason to feel bad about yourself.  you are alot prettier than you give yourself credit for. You don't have any zits that I know of, you have nice full hair, straight teeth, and your face is decently proportaned.

So give yourself a reality check. Take a look at other people. Nobody's really ugly at all, we are all unique. But some people just make themselves ugly by have a lack of personal hygiene, or they can be real jerks. Next time you go out, smile more often and make yourself look open to others. A  simple smile on someone face does work wonders. Also smiling will boost your confidence. Also be a nice person. You can also be ugly on the inside which is worse than being ugly on the outside. And remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder! : )

Answer 2

Your so beautiful!

the shape and complexion

of your face is very original - i say

and i think your smile and hair are your best features

Answer 3

b e a u t i f u l practically perfect in every way

Answer 4

Is this a joke?

Answer 5

Wow, you're really pretty.

I'd give you a  10.

Answer 6

you really are beautiful. i think your issues are more emotional ones then anything. even if you're beautiful it won't do you any good if you don't believe it yourself. i know it sounds cheesy and typical but you need to learn to love yourself first before you can expect other people to talk to you or approach you. just tell yourself everyday that you are fine just the way you are. many girls who are not the best looking have many friends or  are very well liked because they are outgoing and believe in themselves. no one is ever going to be 100% satisfied with themselves but you can learn to be content with how you are. i hope this helps in some way. and good luck. i am shy too but have been coming out of my shell lately, because i realized the only person holding me back was myself.

huh, i see your a model. maybe that has something to do with the self-conciousness?

Answer 7

you are pretty ! dont worry bout ur looks, ok?

Answer 8

you are a beauty

Answer 9

Like you i am really paranoid about the way i look. It used to really get me down until i realized that people will love me for who i am and not just what i look like. the people who are shallow enough to only see what's on the surface aren't worth your attention.

but in your case you have absolutely nothing to worry about! Judging by your photo your amazingly pretty!

Answer 10

idk why ur self concious ur really pretty. ur like a 8/10. dont worry about what other people think. u know ur pretty somewhere in ur mind. so believe it.  

Answer 11

YEAH UM OHHHKAAAYY

Answer 12

The girl in the picture looks fine.  

Answer 13

You look fine, you dont need to change anything...just the way you see yourself. Why not pic up some books to help you with your confidence issues? ex. Confidence Is Queen by Susie Castillo (I never read it personally or anything, so not sure how good it is, I read about it in a magazine...check it out)

Answer 14

Why? You're really really pretty. A lot of people I know would pay to look like you. You have amazing hair and eyes. =)

Answer 15

you look good!

Answer 16

Oh my gosh.. whats wrong with you? Your absolutely GORGEOUS.. you have no reason to feel self conscious and insecure..

You don't need to change a thing..

Joanne

xoxoxo