I have a serious dilemma...
There is this one girl, who lives about 40 minutes away from me. We both have very strong feelings for each other and both want to eventually live in New York together. However, her personality is less geared towards having kids and settling down; she wants to travel a bit and go into the art field, which tends to be more freelance and not rooted down. When I finish college, she will be a senior in college. She is a great girl, and we have a very strong connection.
On the other hand, I have a girl that loves me but who lives in Hong Kong. I have been over there to visit her once, and it was great. We had a great time and a great connection. She is one school year ahead of me in college. She is much more geared towards having a family and living at home, much more than the other girl. She is creative, but does not want to be freelancing and artistic like the other girl. She does not want to travel, but wants to just live with me and have a family once it's convenient.
I really need your help everyone...I feel so strongly for them both but I of course can only be with one. I am in such a dilemma that I'm reaching out to you all for help. Please take this seriously, and thank you so much in advance for your answers.
P.S. - Keep in mind that throughout college I will be able to see the girl in Hong Kong maybe once a year, while the other girl I will be able to see more often, like once a month or more. Also keep in mind that the girl in Hong Kong is much more geared towards settling down (either in HK or NYC), and that's what I want SOMETIME in the future.
Thank you so much
Ryan R.
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