I have a social curse?!!?

Question

Every time I have a crush, we're friends and it always stays that way. There's more of teasing, and making fun of each other and we act like brother and sister more than anything romantic even though I wish it would be. How can I stop this and make guys ask me out?

Answer 1

well i guess i have a social curse to because i always get a crush on my brothers friends sometimes they like me but are afraid to ask becasue of my brother but i find it kinda funny.....well maybe you should ask him if he likes you more than a friend...or just tell him how you feel...but im no expert so i hope this helps....WERE CURSED...lol

Answer 2

why dont you be teasing and fun... I think that would make a much better relationship than being all serious and romantic all the time.

Answer 3

Ok just listen to these 5 easy steps and you'll be on your way to a lifetime of dating success!

1) YOU DO NOT HAVE A SOCIAL CURSE. You might be thinking right know that you KNOW you dont have a curse and you were just joking but the first thing you have to do is admit that its YOUR fault guys only see you as friends. Not the way you look, where your from, or anything but the way you act around people. So go into your bathroom right now or a room with a mirror and say to yourself, "self, it is MY fault why guys only think of me as a friend. It is the way I CHOOSE to act around them that has to change."

2) After you've figured out WHY they dont like you (in step 1) then you have to relize how you do act that is WRONG.

. if you use "guyish" language/terms or actions. Dont call them dude or man or something like that. Call them by there names. Also try not to curse as much as them. It comes across as manly and guys dont want to date a girl who is more fun to just hang with. ALso never talk or do farting or burping. (sounds gross but thats what GUYS do). Also try to not talk to them ALL about what they want to talk about like sports and video games for example. Its nice to talk a little about that but you also have to get to know each other a little. Tell him whats going on in your life and ask about his.

3) Now that you know what your doing wrong you have to know the right way to act.

.FLIRT! acasionally playfully hit him on the arm or something. touch him. And just flirt with him

.DONT agree to hang out and play video games with his buddies or something. Get him alone at like a coffee shop or play his fav sport together. But when you do want a group date take so of ur girls and his guys to the movies or dinner.

4) now that you sort of know some of the ways to act the next step is make you look like girlfriends material. Dress s**y and girly but not S****y. If you come across as too tomboyish guys will only hang with you. And if you dress too S****y he will only want to hook up with you and not have a relationship. Wear jeans and a tank top that covers ur stomach and doesnt show too much cleavige. Also keep clean. shower regularly and be cleansly and approchable.

5) the last step is making a move. Tex him or im him. If he doesnt message u back dont send another. And if he does dont retex him for at least 3 more days. Also dont be affraid to ask him to hang out or tell him u like him. If u keep waiting for guys to come to you it will never work out.

i hope you follow those 5 steps and everything works out for you! good luck! ♥

Answer 4

be more flirtacious. it sounds like your not showing that you can be girlfriend material. You more or less like one of the guys to them. I use to be that way and when i discovered i actually liked one of them. I got really dolled up for one of the parties we went too and showed them i can act like a girl. you should do the same

Answer 5

you have to develop some kind of attraction so that he doesn't think this way. try sayin' somethin' s**y or naughty to him. it sounds funny but trust me, this is what you need to do. if you're always jokin' around he WILL see you as a friend. don't be shy 'cause you will find the reward will be worth gettin' over the butterflies. if your hangin' out with him in person, simply give him a touch AFTER you make the jokes. maybe a rub on the shoulders or chest. once again, make yourself s**y and develop sexual attraction. i hope that i helped you. good luck.