I have a spoiled sibling problem.?

Question

My sister is one of the worst people I know. She is 6 and I am 15. She is very spoiled, makes my life miserable, and is ungrateful.

She makes up lies, once she came into my room made a mess, and told my mom that I tried attacking her. So I got in trouble.

Every week, she usually gets something for lunch or dinner that she doesn’t like, so she throws a tantrum and my parents give in to her demands and buy or make her something better, which also means that she lives a very unhealthy lifestyle.

Also, whenever she is at the store and sees something she wants, then she will start screaming her lungs out to my parents, so she can get it, one time she got stuff well over a hundred dollars. She has lots of toys, but hasn’t even opened half of them, yet she wants more.

Whenever any guests or relatives come over, they usually buy something for her and not me, and when I complain, they say they will bring something next time.

I don’t ask for much usually, unless it will benefit me, like money for extra swimming lessons, but my parents told me that they will think about it.

When I tried telling my parents that they can’t always get her what she wants, they told me that is none of business and that I should do everything I can to make her happy.

One time she came to my high school, and started crying over something stupid, and it was embarrassing because everyone found out that she was my sister.

I really wish that she went to Africa and learned how tough life in the real world is. I was never spoiled, or had bad behavior when I was her age, I don’t understand how she ended up like this.

Sorry if this was really long, but what should i do with her?

Answer 1

She sounds like a grade-A brat. It's probably because she isthe youngest and the youngest get whatever they want. I should know, I was. Tell your parents that Who are they going to believe you or a 6 year old.?  Try to stay away from your sister for a little while, and don't get to angry about it. Gain your parents trust.

Try installing a sercurity camera in your room.

Answer 2

If i were you, i would trick her into doing embarrassing things, and taking pictures of her doing it, and then blackmail her when she is a little older.

Answer 3

treat her how she deserves to be treated.  she would actually grow up into a good person if she wasn't so spoiled.  In the end, kids who are spoiled turn out to be miserable adults.  Look forward to her future in which she can find no joy or sense of accomplishment.

And when she comes to you for help, remind her of all the advanages she had growing up and explain that it would be wrong for you to help her because that would make her feel better.

Answer 4

This is going to end up hurting her.

This is NEVER, AND I MEAN NEVER, going to stop at this pace.

She's ALWAYS going to want more. And when she's grown up,

she can't get everything she wants.

She'll be Cat Lady. No job, No money, Unhappy, and No friends.

REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, try to make your parents realize what their doing to their child.

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Also, I'm the youngest of my family (10+ younger then the rest)

But I don't get everything I want

I got more then the rest, but not everything I want.

Plus, To get something $100+ I'd have to buy it myself or wait for XMAS. The most I get if we're shopping at Target or something, can only be under around $30.00 But I do get $100+ for clothes if its back-to-school clothes or something.

So she's your normal Brat. Worst then most actually. A+ for her Brat report card!

Answer 5

Oh my what a horrid child, this could be a phase.

I see what you mean she is VERY spoiled. What about you grand parents could you talk to them about it at all?

Answer 6

I have the same problem, but I'm 13 and I always get into trouble for arguing with her because they want me to be the bigger person. I was a good child and she's rotten. I've tried being nice but she's so rude. Good luck with your problem.