I have a stalker friend that i cant get rid of what should i do?

Question

i have a stalker friend that is on the internet and always texting me and always not listening to me but i sort of like him. he lives in india and i live here in america sometimes he scares me though when he dont listen to me and calls me anyway when i tell him dont it makes me wonder if he would not listen to anytbhing else that i may say. but i want to be with him sort of in the future but i dont think its a good idea to hold relationships with people you met on the internet. he's really sweet though but i want to stay friends. i am going to change my num. though but i will still contact him on yahoo. do you guys in india date young women or how does that go. i like to talk to foreigners to instant message me on yahoo. girls and guys

Answer 1

Well Lolisa, let me tell u one thing that Friendship should not be conditional, it should be free from all boundries.

In ur case, if u are forced to put on some restriction on him about his behaviour then its evident that he is not worthy for ur friendship.

U just change ur number and avoid contacting him in future. Try n find someone else with whom u r more comfortable.

Answer 2

oh i know what you mean...The most intruding thing the stalker had ever done as of yet was hitting me with the Trojan virus on my computer. I suspected some "phishy" stuff happening along with my gut feelings.

Answer 3

see u only say that he is a nice guy .he is cute .........so what's wrong in having a clean nice relationship of friendship .................but ya if u have some problem with his a ctivities so tell him .freely don't mind w3hat he will think just say him that u don't  like the stuffs he do .if he wants to have a friendship with u then he should stop behaving like that.................

Answer 4

Just stay away from him and don't talk to him. He probably wouldn't listen anyways.

Answer 5

tell him you'll go to the police he wont mess with you ever

;P

Answer 6

yes......

Answer 7

well contradicting yourself every other sentence doesnt help us answer you much.  if he lived 10,000 miles away change your number and your problem is solved