I have a tricky shy girl question to ask and need honest answers plz!!!?

Question

Me:

She was one who asked for my number and email address, she broke the ice by chatting to me, she gets disappointed like she wants to hang out, stares at me sometimes, smiles when she sees me sometimes, calls me and Instant messages me during the week and shows interest by asking questions. Also she wants to keep things discreet between both of us. We don't chat much but she has only asked for me once when i was on holiday.

I asked her on msn "did you tell anyone we swapped numbers" she said "swapped numbers, then she said we are friends nothing more that's if you're curious lol"

I've asked her "did you miss me" she was quiet and said "ummmm thats a tricky question but i didn't miss the work"

But she was the one who said "we can keep each other company" and on Sunday she said "we should go out sometime".

The boss:

She talks to her friends about him, she gets happy when they chat, flirts with him, gives him glances, chat on msn, swapped email addresses at work, she misses him and she likes him alot. I heard her speaking to her friends saying "they chatted yesterday" and she seemed happy.

I've heard her say "the boss needs a massage"

She always asks for him when he's not there

Why does she want to hang out with me and she likes the boss?

Why did she say "we can keep each other company"?

I want total honesty

Help me out plz and tell me why!

Answer 1

sounds like she may be a flirt and a player

Answer 2

Because sleeping with the boss is a big no-no and she knows it's probably never going to happen.  I suspect she still hopes that it does, and that's why she wants to keep your relationship a secret; she doesn't want the boss getting wind that you and her are "together", even if you're not.

She's not that into you.  Sorry.

Answer 3

OK, so listen. Maybe she likes you but likes her boss more. She could think of you as a friend and a shoulder to cry on, nothing more. And think of the boss as the dream guy she has always wanted. So my advise is to lay it low. If you really like this girl, don't push it. Become her friend, and act like a friend. You can still call her and chat, but not to the point that it becomes uncomfortable two to talk. Don't be all in her face forcing her to like you. When the time comes and she has to choose, who knows, she may choose you.

Answer 4

sounds like shes not sure wh she wants m8. it is possible she likes both of you... th only way to find your true answer is by simply asking her straight up. you cant understand the clues she leaves cos its mixed messages so just xplain to her you not sure whether she feels that way about you and you wanted an answer. the worst she'll say is no sorry and its a little bit awkward and embarrasing but you got to take a risk othrwise you'll just sit there frustrated as f*ck wanting to know wht she thinks. if you really wanna know the answer just go for it!

good luck

Answer 5

She like your boss and wants to be "just friends" with you

Answer 6

Why are you bothering with a mixed up person like this?  Why are allowing her to make all the moves and have everything on her terms? What are your terms?  If you really are interested just ask her out but it sounds like she is playing with you and your feelings.