I have a typical teenage problem. Its about a guy. Help.?

Question

Sorry, I didnt know how to sum this up in one question.

Theres this guy, who suddenly seems to like me a lot. The thing is, Im in this group of friends. Hes already dated three of my best friends, and I get the feeling thats why hes suddenly moved on to me.

I dont really like him either way, I just thought Id throw that out there. He keeps wanting to hang out. Sooo I did, but I brought my friend. Now he wants to hang out tomorrow. I want to, but I have no interest in him.

Is there a way to tell him Im not interested without messing up our whole friendship? Because I do want to hang out. Its just, you get it. Can someone help me out?

Answer 1

Im going to be realistic because it is sooo embarassing to say to someone i just want t be freinds so this is what i would do.::

Start throwing things into your GROUPS conversation like:

i love being single

and im definatly not intrested in dating abyone

and i dont like anyone

and yeah i ahte it when guys ask you out and you dont like them back

I know it sounds terribl but it si simple easy and not embarasiing!!

And with the texts throw in

i HATE playing personal questions especailly threw texts. tacky much ahahaha

Oxox Hope i helped =D

Answer 2

get rid of that guy, its clear the only reason he wants to even talk to you in the first place is cuz he dated all ur friends.  and once he dates you. he will go back to all his friends and brag and say "yeah. i been with all of them. im the man." and they will all be impressed.

Answer 3

hmm..ive had to deal wit stuff like this alot before

well if u no for sure for sure that he likes u then just be like i love u as a friend and ur great but right now thats all i think of u as..a friend..im sorry

and just say that u really want to stay friends and that ur sorry u dont feel the same way as him

thats pretty much all u can do...is just say sorry u dont feel the same way but love the friendship and that u want to keep it

hope that helps some what

Answer 4

this is like that john tucker must die movie..lol...  --btw,, is there any beef between the girls that already dated him- if not, i dont see any problem

Answer 5

first u should make sure that he really likes u and ur not just imagining things then u should ask ur friends what he did with them before he asked them out and when he finally ask u out just tell him u just want to be friends

if hes a truely likes u im sure he can accept being friends with u

Answer 6

you should tell him what you want to tell him

example you want to tell him to be your friend only then tell him

you just want to be friends....

(are you confused?)

Answer 7

If he brings up dating, then just tell him that you want to be friends. End of story.

Answer 8

when u hangout do something casual like ice cream, the mall or bowling with alot of ur friends and his but u can also tell him that u just want to b friends......... hope everything works out!!! :)

Answer 9

haha well excuse me but its also for boys who dream of having a tlc fashion show.

but now back to real life

i think a guys opinion would be better. are you positive its because he wants to date you? lets assume so. you can just keep doing giving him excuses until he gives up. but probably your 100% best bet is to come out and tell him that you just want to know him as a friend, nothing more, nothing less. and he wont want to hang out with you as much, maybe even at all, but then when he looks at you he wont see you as someone he's intrested in dating, but someone who was honest with him and wanted to be a friend. and if he dated 3 of your best friends then maybe he needs a little bit of rejection. honesty is awesome. just tell him leave it at friends