I have a very attractive gf and I am a jealous bf....?

Question

she doesnt mind if I talk to attractive people (or she doesnt show it). she is the type of woman that demands attention. how do I deal with this?

Answer 1

count your lucky stars that you have a very attractive gf.

Answer 2

You have self esteem issues and doubt your worth, " She's too hot to be with me ! " right ?

You'll have to get over that , you have to figure she's with you for a reason.

Jealousy is basically frustration due to a lack of control of another.

You doubt your worth ,so you want to limit her interaction with others.

Wrong , wrong , wrong  ,it's not your job to control her and eventually it will drive her off.

Value yourself , she will too.

Answer 3

Normally when you are jealous or distrusting it is really a reflection of yourself.

If she doesn't seem to worry about it, she is probably faithful and just assumes you are the same and she has nothing to worry about.

Being jealous will get you nowhere. It's a huge strain on a relationship, doesn't bring anything positive, and normally just causes destruction. I know it's easier said than done, but just try to get over it. Or figure out what it is about YOU that is causing it (do you like talking to other hot girls, ever consider cheating, etc)

Answer 4

Trust me...you do not want to worry about being jealous it will destroy you and your relationship.  If you are not with someone you can trust completely then get out because no matter how hot she is it will not be worth it if you can't trust her 100%.

Answer 5

Leave her if you feel that she is not trustworthy.

If she demands a lot of attention, she probably suffers a Personality Disorder. If she acts in inappropriate ways and then tells you that you're the problem, that's a bad sign.

Answer 6

Don't let a low self-esteem prevent you from thoroughly enjoying having a hot girlfriend. If it is bothering you when she is talking to some guy, go find another cute girl to talk to while she does it. If your girlfriend is a cute, center-of-attention chick, there will definitely be other women interested in talking to you. Women tend to rate men's attractiveness based on how attractive their girlfriends are.

Answer 7

Get over it. It's annoying as F*** to have a jealous bf always staring over your shoulder.  

Answer 8

Lighten up. Be glad she's your girlfriend and learn to trust her. As she says herself, there is nothing wrong with talking to other attractive people. She doesn't mind if you do it and if she does, she's trying to trust you. Extend her the same courtesy.

If she betrays your trust, then she's not worth it as a girlfriend anyway, no matter how attractive she is.