I have an 11 month old daughter that i drop off to her fathers house at night when i go to work i dropped her?

Question

off yesterday the 20th at around 5pm and my normal routine is to pick her up from his house or at a mutual location between 8am and 11am the following day which would have been this morning but this morning or all day her father did not answer any of my phone calls and when i went to his house i did not see his car. it is now 11:30pm and i havent seen my daughter in 30 hours and im pissed off.. we had gotten into an argument right before i dropped her off and now i think he is trying to stress me out by holding her against my will.. i am at work and i am thinking about showing up at his house with police when i get off work. Not to menchion he lives with his mother and his whole family and they hate me. i want to call the poilice should i call them? if u were in my shoes what would you do?

Answer 1

I would call the police.

Answer 2

Please tell us that you have some sort of legal custody papers! If not, and if you have acknowledged him as the father, you may be out of luck. Call the police but also talk to a lawyer. The laws vary from state to state. Good luck!

Answer 3

if i were in ur shoes i would have already gone to the police, girl go get ur child

Answer 4

So if his car isn't there,  I assume others are in the house,  can you ask them where he is,  phone them or go around.

If you have no luck go to the police.  

The problem I think is going forward,  you obviously rely on him to look after your daughter while you are at work,  after this I would not trust him with my daughter and would be looking at stopping work or finding alternative childcare.

Answer 5

I would call him one more time and let them know that if he doesn't give your daughter back you will be calling the cops, if he doesn't give her back I would call the cops and let them know that you don't know where your daughter is she is missing, that she was with her father for a visit and now she is gone.  Have them go over there with you and if he isn't home then they can file a report.

Answer 6

Call the police as fast as you can.

Answer 7

i would call the police. it would help if you had a written custody agreement showing the drop off and pick up times.

Answer 8

Thats terrible! And scary! What are you doing at work? I'd have been pulling my hair out after 3hrs and calling the hospitals after 5, and the police after that!

Can you trust him not to take her away, like abroad? You hear of things like that! 30hrs would have given him plenty of time!

Oh dear. I tell you, when you get her back you are going to have to think twice before handing her over to him again! He is being cruel to you, the mother, not to mention irrisponsible and a bad father to use your daughter as a weapon against you. I know you have to work and I know it must be difficult but you might have to get something worked out with the courts for him to have access again. He may have to have someone with him to stop him doing this again.

I really pray for you that this is going to be ok! You have ME worried now!

Answer 9

I would of called the cops right off.

If he is like this- why trust him?

Call cops and the child prtection agency.

NOW doesn't matter what tima of day or night it is. Call the police NOW even if you are at work.

Answer 10

call the police and call a lawyer.

Answer 11

you should call the police i would of dun it by now if it was me!!!