I have an 11 year old that doesnt want to do anything, if I put my foot down he destroys everything!?

Question

My 11 year old I sometimes think is possessed .He is currently in a mental hospital in Houston for his explosive temper , He was thrown out of school and told not to come back until He could behave. He is threating the principle , that if he wont punish kids for being mean to him he will kill them.

so the principle sent him home . his sister brings home his homework and he goes outside to play , I told him he needed to do his homework first then he could go out to play , he wnet in the house and slammed the doors , next thing you know me and my husband hear things hitting the wall

we go in the house, he screaming he hates us and trying to hit us with u.f.o's (unidentified flying objects ) I had to hold him down arms and legs wrapped around him hes kicking, biting, head butting finally i had to let him go, he put a two foot hole in my hallway wall . I called the cops and they do nothing ! I had to put him in the hospital , now he is coming home and he hasnt changed a bit. help !

Answer 1

is this a real question? Show that kid who's boss!

Dont beat him ^^^.......but lay down the law in a way he will never forget! He's only 11. You'd be better to set him straight now before he hits puberty.

Answer 2

I''m around his age. I know a kid a little similar to this. (tried to strangle a kid in 4th grade, got caught and suspended) Anyway I think you need to ffind whats wrong at school. I think he needs a little tough love (no hitting or spanking that'll make it worse) That kid is fine now. I don't know what changed. Try a councilor.

Answer 3

Don't get discouraged.  I would definitely have your son see another doctor if you have seen no change in him.  Sometimes it may take awhile for you to find the right doctor.  My husband has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and let me tell you it is a rocky road. But if you feel that you have a doctor that doesn't take your son's problem seriously then find another!  Don't settle for crappy care for your son.  If you feel something is wrong then don't stop looking for help.  His behavior doesn't sound like hes just being a "brat" it sounds like something serious.  Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

TALK TO HIS DOCTOR

IF THAT DOESN'T WORK, SHOW HIM UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

THE MORE LOVE THERE IS, THE LESS HE'LL WANT TO FIGHT

I THINK HE'S JUST MISUNDERSTOOD

HE PROBABLY WANTS LOVE BUT CANT HAVE IT BECAUSE EVERYONE IS PICKING ON HIM,

HE'S JUST SHIELDING HIS FEAR WITH ANGER

Answer 5

talk to his regular doctor about further behavioral help. Drs know what resources are available out there and in you region/

Answer 6

=O I am 11, and what my mom would probably do if something like this was going on with me, (or something mental) is she would work it out little by little! First I would observe what he does, then write it down, and then try to work it out as it comes. My little brother can be like this at times too. He finally stops when my mom tells him how much she loves him, and that he needs to calm down. It probably won't work on all kids, but it's just a suggestion. If you try to work it out little by little, and that doesn't help at all, then you should bring your child to a doctor! You should see maybe if something is bothering him, or if he just doesn't like life... Nowadays, kids can be VERY untame! I knew a kid, and he was sort of like this. He had killed my next door neighbors animal, by breaking its back, and chocked my rabbit! I had to hit a kid that was 4 years younger than me! He still wouldnt let go, but I finally got him free. So my best suggestion would, like I said, to see what he does wrong, think of somethings, like why could he be doing this? And sooner or later you'll figure it out! I have faith!! Please e-mail me if you can how things are going!

Answer 7

Beat him until he obeys.