I have an annoying friend..?

Question

Me and my friend had a fight on july 1st, and havent really talked till today.

she got mad at me because i went to my family's over the summer, and she didnt have anyone else to hang out with.. but i dont really think its my fault that she doesnt have anyone else to hang out with.. i have family.. and i also have other friends... now she wont stop calling me.. but i dont really want to talk to her.. and she knows.. but wont stop. i aleady told her what i feel.. but she wont stop. she had a bf for morew than a year.. and she would never call me or anything.. and i never got mad at her for it.. . i never get mad at her.. and i find her really annoying anymore..

what do i do? i dont want to stop talking to her completely.. but i dont really want to hang out with her anymore.. because everytime we hang out, she yells at me like shes my mom..

Answer 1

She's really selfish! It's not your fault... like you said, you have family....

next time she calls you should talk to her and just say what you feel and tell her that you don't really want to talk to her anymore.  

Answer 2

You've done what you can by telling her how you feel, but have you done it in a way that she is going to understand? By shutting someone off the way you have seemed to can leave them feeling out in the cold and unaware of why they are prompting this reaction. Have you thought about it from your friend's point of view? How she might feel that one of her closest friends has treated her in a way that is frankly, cold?

She didn't have the right to get angry at your for going away for the summer, and you are right to feel that it isn't your fault. However her calling you and being angry is probably just a sign that she cares about you and the friendship and may perhaps be feeling left behind? Sit down and talk to her properly, one on one and let her talk about how she feels, and you can say how her behavior has made you feel. Hopefully by getting it out in the open and by being receptive to one another you can work it out to a point where you are both comfortable.

Good luck, and remember it's not just you who is feeling frustrated by this situation.  

Answer 3

She is truly a selfish person and not worth of your time.  Tell her off that she needs to get a life.

Answer 4

U ARE DESPERATE FOR FRIENDSHIP.

DUMP HER LONER UNLESS SHE IS UR L*****n MATE.  

Answer 5

I would completely ignore her

Answer 6

quit answering the phone.