I have an ego? help? Please?

Question

I think that I didn't explain right in my last question. I have NO ego at all, but people say that i'm really egoistic, because I tend to not notice what other people would think unless they stick it straight into my face. My mom just got really upset yesterday, because I also have problems with my manners, and don't really notice it. I also don't really notice when I'm flirting with someone or not so I try to just not talk to the person that I shouldn't with but sometimes it slips out in front of them and they get all upset that they raised someone like me.

Someone please tell me how to NOT make signs that I'm flirting.

How to work on the rudeness problem.

And how I can try to notice things more. please?

Answer 1

I was similarly in your position before. People in my school were irritated to my manners. They somehow hated me for that. The reason was i was too numb to their feelings that i just kept going.

My advice is that , at the end of the day, remember the things that you have done. And summarize your actions. Then put yourself in their position. Ask questions like, should i do that, or put yourself in their she and ask things, is that appropriate. That was my remedy to my problem. Next year, the irritation lessen and i made a lot of friends.

Just remember, at the end of your day, have a summary and ask a lot of questions. And remember to put yourself in their position.

We make that kind of mistakes , and the best way is to learn from our failures.

Answer 2

Manners, young person, manners. Just add "please" as a routine item into your requests. I notice that you already have in your question.Good.

Say "Thank you," as well, when you receive something. Do not start talking when some body else is already speaking to you, and that is all there is, really.

Flirting? Now that is something you really just should keep strictly between you and the fellow concerned. It's fun to flirt, so flirt. But don't make it into a spectator sport. See. Simple. Problems solved.

Answer 3

Try using this site as a barometer. Answer people's questions by first carefully reading the problem and then thinking of solutions that might help them. That is one way of putting yourself in someone else's shoes and not focussing on yourself. Start today.

Answer 4

Wow, your an idiot.  You obviously realize your problems, if you are posting this.  You sound like a real ***, and if you have any friends at all I am very surprised.  Let see a s**t, with no manners, and cant point out her own flaws.  Sounds like someone I want to be friends with.  Open your eyes and take a good hard look at yourself.  These things aren't hard!!