I have an ex-girlfriend that has come back into my life after 13 years...?

Question

I am now 26, and she is 28. I have a 3 year old girl, and she has an 8 year old girl. During the 3 days that she has come back into my life we have slept together every night. I am feeling very nostalgic right now, but how long will that last? I needed to get away from my current GF (the one that had my child) but have had no where to turn because I am incapable to make change in my life without some kind of safety net. I now have that, and my current GF is gone (it was mutual). But now I'm afraid of what the future will bring with my ex... and a possible "step-dad" situation. I have an ex-wife (who is not part of this at all) but when she left me I tried to commit suicide through pills... I ended up waking up the next morning with vomit everywhere in the hotel room, and me still alive. I dont' know what to do now, I don't want to go down that road again..... I am on medication (and I have been taking it) but I still feel this way....

Answer 1

You will not be happy until you boost your self-esteem.  You need to take time alone now and work on yourself.  Don't accept situations that you know are potentially wrong for you.  Spend time with your child.  Think and get inside your own head.  Then learn how to get outside of your head.  If you are feeling anxiety and thoughts of suicide are creeping in, then please call crisis hotline or go to your local hospital for a few days foe some help.  Best of luck to you.

Answer 2

My God get some help!  How can you make any decisions on what you want with all the c**p going on in your life?You need to get yourself together before you add anyone else to the mix.  Get your head straight before you follow your heart.  How can you know what is right with all you are dealing with?  Take some time to get yourself together then decide what you want.

Answer 3

Please seek counseling immediately..this is not a question to be answered on Yahoo as you have very serious issues.  It takes a lot of courage to go to your family physician and get a referral.  Why not copy this question and show it to your doctor..he will put you in touch with someone that can help you out.

Good Luck...!!!

Answer 4

you need to grow balls and BIG balls

Your 26 its time to grow up

Every day is a challange, your problems fade in comparision to people with real issuses

Smarten up and take control of your life (enjoy the life you have) live for today and take one step at a time

You need to have a good chat the your inner person and tuffen up

This is just another challenge ... one of many more to come

Answer 5

You need to BUCK UP and be a human with a decent head on your shoulders, if not for only yourself, but your daughter!!

WE ALL experience heart ache!  We learn to grow with it.  We learn to see the RED FLAGS in relationships!!  

Unless we're soldiers fighting for our country, there is no other reason to die for a woman who doesn't love you! ( or man).

Answer 6

WOW! Are you serious? Sounds like straight up *FaTe* to me......but just wondering did you cheat on your girlfriend? Because after reading this you labeled her your current girlfriend, be a faithful lover or don't love....

Answer 7

You need to slow down with your relationships and getting so involved with the ladies. I think you need to be by yourself for awhile without all the hassle of trying to make a relationship work. Suicide is never the answer, you are only hurting yourself and it solves nothing. It also hurts more people than just you.

What kind of safety net are you wanting? One that you will hang yourself on? Get some professional help and stop all the sleeping around...

Answer 8

You are not stable enough for a relationship and you most certainly should not be raising children. Find a good shrink to unf*ck your head.