I have an ex husband who married this girl 10 years younger than him, only 3 weeks after we split. ?

Question

she is constantly writing blogs about me that are very very mean and degrading and hurtful. calling my autistic son retarded and saying i spread my legs for all kinds of men throughout my marriage to him (i never once cheated on him) He cheated on me at least 4 times. Our son is 7 and his father has not seen him in over a year now, nor does he pay child support at all. The wife blogs that im a lazy person and that i call and ask him to pay my bills. i don't even know their number!! She makes up things, or he is telling her these things to make her jealous. what is your opinion on all of this mess? :(

Answer 1

my opinion is that she a histrionic wench. otherwise, regarding what some others said about pursuing child support, while it would be nice to have, if you can get by without you might consider not pushing the issue. he may in turn pursue regular visitation and then your child would be around a girl that calls him retarded.

i have a 7 yr old autisic daughter.

Answer 2

be glad he is your ex...and remember everything happens for a reason..karma always boomerangs...love you and your son and let your ex remain in his title of EX..you and your son are in my prayers...i work with autistic children and they are Gods precious possessions..I love them..take care and don't let him stress you and don't let his new side kick stress you either..be happyt they are a couple and not you and him anymore.

Answer 3

i would take his butt to court and get the child support from him.  as for her blogs, don't worry about them.  just ignore them and she will look like the psycho here, not you.  anyone that would call a 7 year old autistic boy retarded in a blog is a messed up person, period.  she will get hers with karma.  i applaud that you got out of that horrible marriage.  the fact that they got married so quickly after the split tells me that they were s******g way before the split.  the timing is just way too convenient.  don't check those blogs anymore.  they will just upset you and life is too short.  why give this psycho any of your time and energy?

Answer 4

My opinion is that you are way too interested in the bloggings of your EX husband's wife.  Turn off the computer and take your son to the park or something.  Get some perspective, and realize that what this woman says truly has not one bit of effect on your life.

Answer 5

I've been going through this as well with an ex. My GF has had emotional breakdowns because off the mean comments and what not. Best advice is to ignore it and go on with your life. Publicly being upset or angry towards her is only going to fuel the hate. Let it go and sooner or later she'll realize she can't get a rise out of you.  

Answer 6

Make nasty blogs about her as well.

Answer 7

Get his number and go after the child support. Who cares what she writes, the old sticks and stones. Who is reading these comments that have any impact to you any way?  

Answer 8

If she can't ruin your reputation, ignore it and try not to be hurt by this anymore. Stop reading her blog, it's not worth it, hurting because of a lieing b*tch. Talk to all your friends about what is happening, so that there is no chance they would read her blog and believe what she's saying.

Take your ex to court to get child support for him. It's the least he can do, and happily this is something he can't say no to

Later edit: if the other son is or isn't he's, that's something very easy to find out, if he really wants to know it. As for your autistic son, autism as far as I know does not equal r****d. An autistic person can in fact be a lot more intelligent than many people who call themselfs "normal". And even if he was a reard, why the heck would that be any of her business? Ignore her. She has a problem, not you. She is probably jealous on you and this is why she is harrassing you. She thinks you are a threat, that your ex could somehow come back to you some day. You are the one on the superior position here, so don't worry

Answer 9

Honey thats an awful kick in the teeth.  And then all this rubbish when u are alone raising your son.  Im not sure if u could do her for slander or contact the site services about the abuse?  Either way, i know it must be hard but try and smile back at the prize your husband has got and the prize she has got in your husband.  After all, if he does not see or up keep his son or respect you as the mother of his child and the job you are doing raising him alone, whilst he runs around with a foul mouthed teenager who abuses u.  I dont see a rosie future for them.  And if he cheated on you then he will cheat on her and look at whats coming his way from her when he does if she is this obsessive about you.  Take your son out for the day and laugh your head off at the s***k he has and the future he will have.  My bet is he doesnt even know she is doing it.  But if she didnt feel threatened by you she would spend her time obsessing about you.  If u send her something back it will just fuel things.  Tho im tempted to write something back about an uneducated trailer trash type person who has the brains and character of vile vulture to reference an autistic child retarded.  Thank God he hasnt made her a mother.  I wish you well in your life.  Hold up your head and be the lady and mother she dreams to be.  

Answer 10

Stop reading her blogs. She's no more than a minor inconvenience to you, kind of like a button off your blouse. Consider the source, and move on. The people that know you don't believe it, and the ones that don't know you, don't matter.  

Answer 11

Take the b*****d to court for child support and STOP reading what the immature heffa writes about you.  You and everyone that knows you know its not true and the other folk don't know you...so no harm done.  Move on with your life and be the best mother you can be.  Those losers will eventually get whats coming to them.

Answer 12

Sweetheart I don't know where you are from but in england there is section in the police that deals with this kind of harassment, you have to report it. This is stalking of the worse kind and I am sure that you will find that you can take them both to court for this. One thing you must do is keep all the emails and blogs on file so that they can be traced. She is obviously an immature, I would like to say moron but I don't know if I am allowed to use that word. Anyone that can have a go at a 7year child like this has got to have something missing upstairs, it sounds like they deserve one another, anyone who knows you is not going to believe all her lies anyway, and yes he probably is using you to make her jealous, what a sad person he really is. I personally think you and your wonderful son are much better off with out him and I am sure that you will find a loving caring man one day to make your world a happier place, in the mean time I am sure that your son does a very good job of filling your world with love.good luck to you both, I will be thinking about you.

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Answer 13

why dont you write a blog on the same site as she does and be mean back. i'm sure she would back off after.

why dont people just get on with the own lifes, i dont understand.

Answer 14

My honest opinion is...You are better off without them both.  If a man is denying his son...he is a pig.  I would take him to court to get child support.  Then I would thank God that he is getting exactly what he deserves a young immature bimbo.  Be strong you are worth more than that.