I have an ex that is pregnant and i believed it was mine but ?

Question

she just told me yesterday she was cheating on me. my question is what do i do in this situation?

Answer 1

All you can do is get a paternity test and find out for sure and if the baby is yours you step up and be a father.  You will have to wait until the baby is born though so that will be a long wait of not knowing.  

Answer 2

wait and get a paternity test

Answer 3

wait until the baby is born then get a blood test done

Answer 4

pray for the baby.... even if its not yours you still should pray for it

Answer 5

wait, until the baby is born and have a paternity test. i think it can be done while she is pregnant, but i have heard doctors wait until the baby is born because it is safer.

Answer 6

paternity test.

Answer 7

That's really rough.  I know it sucks but all you can do is wait until the baby is born and have a DNA test done to see who's it is.  Good luck man.

Answer 8

wait and take a test right after the child is born. til then not much to do. in the future us protection and eliminate the question and doubt

Answer 9

Have a dna test done. You might have to go to the judge to get her to have to comply. Good luck. and glad to see there are still men out there who stand up and do the right thing,.  

Answer 10

I am sorry that you are in this situation. Be there for her. She could really use a friend right now. The worst thing is to be pregnant and alone. I don't mean to be in a relationship with her or wine and dine her but just be there when she needs someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on when things get rough. Let her know how you feel about this. When the baby is born you can get the paternity test. If you are the father then you won't have regrets of not being there for the pregnancy. If it turns out not to be yours then you will know in your heart that you were there for her. And trust me she will never forget that you were the one that stayed by her side. I wish you the best and good luck to you!!!

Answer 11

It's called a paternity test, and it is fool proof and virtually 100 % accurate.  By tracking the genetic DNA markers from both Biological Parents it is possible to determine with pin-point accuracy the Mother and Father of the Child.

How old are you both?  In most states, if you are under the age of 18, and / or are not both emancipated adults as ordered by the Courts; you will BOTH need your Legal Guardians / Parents to go with you to the Lab to have the Blood Drawn for the test.  Test results are usually available to the parties to the action and the Court in 6 to 12 weeks.  

The cost of the Test runs in a range of $ 450.00 - $ 700.00, (last I checked).  Make sure the Test Lab you use is State & Federally Certified as a  liscenced & acreditted DNA testing facility.

You may need to get the Family Court to issue a Court Order to force the other suspect party(s) to rule them out or show them to be the father.

Answer 12

I would say do the paternity test you can get them through the mail now for relatively inexpensive with a mouth swab. however I would say if you want this child a little dna shouldn't matter. also depending on how pregnant she is (and her ability to remember) have her count. you have a very short window of fertility (about 3 days) around when you ovulate which is always 2 weeks before she would start her period. although this is not a foolproof method it will give you an idea while you wait. plus if the other guy is a looser it might be better for the baby to have you as a dad than nobody or a deadbeat dad.

Answer 13

when the baby is born test it to see if he of she is yours

Answer 14

Get a paternity test after the baby is born. If it's not yours you are basically home free, but if it is then you should take responsibility for it.