I have an identity crisis. I'm a straight guy in character and soul. But I'm very effeminate physically.?

Question

I usually like to spend more time with girls than boys.

I'm infatuated or crush with girls and boys.

I do fall in love only with girls.

My hobbies, sports, interests and passions are masculine.

The real me is masculine.

But physically, I'm so feminine.

I would like to change the way I act and speak.

I want to have a girlfriend but girls usually don't like me at all.

They usually say, I'm g*y because of what they see of me.

People judge me but don't know me.

They don't see the real me.

But I want to change that.

Anybody? Thanks!

Answer 1

dude all i can say is...accept YOU for who YOU ARE.

So you sound feminine and have a feminine type of body...so what? If they make fun of you just kick their *** in whatever sport you play

Answer 2

Hypnotherapy. It's great. And it seriously works. I've had it for a similar problem and I'm fixed!

Answer 3

Alot of girls love slightly effeminate boys. Some of your girl friends may like you but because they think you're g*y, they don't want to be rejected by you

Answer 4

what do you mean by physically feminine? you mean just weak of body? go to the gym?

Answer 5

i'm a girl and i would prefer effeminate guys. i would say stay who you are and the right chick will come along and appreciate you for you. :) don't change yourself for anyone...