I have an intense sexual fantasy... I want to "catch" my bf "cheating"...?

Question

I have a fetish - I really REALLY want to watch my partner having s*x/making out with another woman (a specific hot friend, in fact). I want to watch it through a window/through a keyhole etc. (from a "hidden" place, as if I've "caught" them).

I've dreamt about this and find it extremely arousing. I doubt it will ever happen. But it's a really erotic fantasy for me...

Is this strange? What should I do? Should I convince my partner to make out with another woman so I can watch? Has anyone else heard of/experienced this? Any advice?

Answer 1

r u a girl?

cuz im a guy and i have the same fantasy.

Answer 2

honey trap them or whatever its called.get a friend to bait him then walk in on them.maybe he will give you enough time to explain you find it hot.wont work if he knows in advance.

Answer 3

Hmmm...no, you're not weird for fantasizing about this.  I've had a similar fantasy.  The only thing I'm thinking is that some counselors and psychologists might say that if you dream about a threesome, something's wrong in the core of your relationship.  I don't know if this is true for you; you have to analyze that for yourself.  

If this is something you're thinking about frequently, I do advise that you discuss it with your partner.  If nothing else, it might bring you closer together to share this intimate fantasy with him.  However,if you make the decision to carry out the fantasy, I really don't advise involving your friend.  That could be a really really sticky situation.  You should leave your friends adn boyfriend separate.