I have become an very unstable woman. Please give me advice before I ruin my everything. ?

Question

Lately I feel that I 'm criticizing my close people too much and I feel so irritating when they do things that in a different ways from the way I usually do and think. I'm trying to blame them in every chance. I worsen things until we quarrel. Maybe I'm getting pleasure from it. I am communicate normally with strangers and people I'm in less acquaintance. What is happening to me? I don't make friend easily, and few friends. I don't want to loose my friends and my bf.

Answer 1

Just realize everyone's an individual and has a different point of view. If you don't agree with it take it with a grain of salt. If you can't stand them that much stop hanging out.

Answer 2

`~u seem to answer your own questions as you go along. You already observed and ad noted your behaviors as rash and unstable . Thus you are your own acquaintance at best. Is this unconstitutional behavior of yours allowing you to stoop to a level that you would not normally, or do unto others, or have done unto yourself.... Is this "change" in you granting you new levels of self-control. or control unto others? Has this "other you" sought after loss as well?

Do This: Go into a well lit room with a mirror large enough to view the top of your head to you neck line. Observe nothing but your facial expressions as you slowly speak aloud your thoughts as they come to you. To make as effective as possible be sure to make this a "Private Session"....allocate for yourself what you look like and sound like as you made your most recent encounters. Only you can have the Answer from here.

Give yourself some credit.... You I would assume carry "on a more you scale"  good karma, like able, caring, head strong? Anyway Good Luck to you...drop me a line I honestly want your feedback. Which IS Confidential in my respects.

~Jilted ;* ) Jewel

Answer 3

It is possible that "familiarity is breeding contempt" - you are becoming less satisfied with life as it appears to you at this moment in time. Take time out to reflect on the quality of your life right now & are you happy for things to stay as they are? If yes then try to look at things from their perspective rather than your own. If no, then seriously consider making some radical decisions to better your life. In either case google a short piece called Desiderata. It might help you a lot with these issues. Best wishes. UK