I have been dating for 3 months&I wanna ask him questions about himself but Idont know what type of questions?

Question

what questions do you ask a guy to further understand him and where he stands in the relationship between you? would you ask the guy that you soon to be sexually active with... and s*x question? questions about his family?questions about where he thinks the relationship is going or his perception of relationships? I dont know what to ask him? but I know I wanna know more about him?

Answer 1

If you're concerned about STDs, ask him if he's had s*x partners before and if he's been tested.  It's blunt, but it's to the point and there's no misconstruing the answer.

I'm really surprised you don't know about his family at this point.  I guess ask him if he has any siblings, how old they are, etc.

As for understanding him, ask him what he sees himself doing in 5 years.  And to see where he stands with you, ask him if he thinks you'll be standing next to him still.  

Also, don't make this a total serious thing.  It's good to throw in some fun questions too...like, "What's your favorite food?" or "What's the first thing that comes to mind when I say..."  

Also, don't be surprised if the guy doesn't want to answer a boatload of questions in the same day.  If you ask a bunch of questions at once, it can feel like an interview and make him uncomfortable.  It's ok to spread out your questions over time.  

You're not going to know everything about him right away.  I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and I am still discovering things about him!  But that's what makes the relationship fun--discovery :)