I have bf problems? help?

Question

ok well heres the story:

I really really care for my boyfriend, he means everything to me and i don't know what i would do without him. But lately it feels like he doesn't love me anymore. He never makes plans with me (though he never did), he isnt very affectionate anymore, and he gets mad at me really easily. And another thing he is always talkig to other girls, even though i know them i dont like what he says o them, he has nicknames for them like pumpkin. (and i know he used to like the pumpkin girl) I just dont know what to do. Please help me out because i dont know what i would do with out him. (ive made countless friends through him and i know i would lose them all)

Answer 1

you have to confront him...tell him how u feel and that you really care about him. Just pretending that everything is fine is a sure way to lose him.

Answer 2

You overracting... If you think so, break up with him... It looks like you around 15 because people that age overracts and say things like you said.

Answer 3

I call my brother in law a "mean old pumpkin"

Answer 4

The relationship sounds unhealthy.  A good relationship fits into your other life relationships without taking you away from them.

Lose this guy and find someone else.

Answer 5

It doesn't sound like he's really committed to the relationship. I think you should break it off with him. :/ And if those friends were true friends, they wouldn't ignore you after you broke up with him. Good luck! (:

Answer 6

your not going out with him ur addicted to him, this is a very unhealthy relationship, its an addiction and believe me girl it will be one of the hardest addictions to break

Answer 7

he takes you for granted...

some guys like the idea of having a gf, like

cool haircut..... check

nice car...........check

girlfriend...........check

make him think that you don't need him, that you are really happy even though he's not always there for you, trust me a had a boyfriend who started doing that to me and i started to complain and he said i was annoying and paranoid, so  i started paying less attention to him and telling him i was hanging out with my friends and having a blast with them (lies, lies and more lies) that was his wake up call, he changed within 2 days, he even gave me a ring...

if he doesn't put much effort in your relationship it's cuz he thinks that no matter what you'll always love him...

good luck

can you answer my question, boy trouble too lol

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Answer 8

you just have to confront him, and let him know how you feel about it. just show some comfort, and it will go smoothly

Answer 9

thats what love does. sometimes, it has fireworks flying everywhere for the first few times...and then it turns into sparklers.... and then the flames die down. keep the love spontaneous. keep him interested. im not saying flash him or anything but plan something cool that he'd be into with YOU. Kiss him, cuddle him but of course dont cuddle him in public =D wear your hair down, shake it out if you dont alredy do, but some vanilla perfume, boys are addicted to that. talk to other guys, it will drive him nuts and he'll come back to you more than ever.

hope i helped and it all works out. if not, email me, i could go on all day =)

-kaylaa.