I have bff trouble please help!?!?

Question

My best friend like acts like she hates me now and she never calls me anymore! What should i do? I really wish we were as close as we were before! I think she might be a lil jealous becuse we are both best friends with another grl!!! And i hung out with her most of this summer... I dont want her to feel that way! I just want her back! But my bff hasnt said anything to me and wen we hung out at camp it felt like it was all good again and now that camp is over it went back to before!!!

Answer 1

talk to your friends about how you feel

see how they feel

they might have a different view on the situation than you

people also change and go through phases so don't be so quick to blame yourself for your friends weird actions

there isnt much you can do but talk to your friends about how you feel.

if they are true friends they will understand where you are coming from

you could also just make a plan and hang out with both of them at the same time... and when you do dont make it a fight who is better friends with the one girl

Answer 2

ASK HER! really you need to ask her about it.. call her and just ask whats up? its not fair for you to all of the sudden get ignored.. maybe you did something to make her mad and it just unaware of it. Or like what usually happens in my friend group... she heard a rumor someone told her you said something.. true or not and not she is upset about it. Tell her you weren't trying to push her away and that she is still your best friend and the other girl isn't. The problem isn't going to solve itself with silence. At camp you were forced to see each other and talk and now that you aren't its going to be different. Deffently talk to her about it.

Answer 3

wellll yourr friend is just beingg really two-faced and jealous,but try to hangg out with both your friends together instead of seperately,

thats what i had to do when i was in this situation

Answer 4

if she really is your best friend then she really wouldn't care about you hanging out with the other person but sometimes jealousy can get the best of everyone she might feel like you left her on the side for your other friend the best thing to do is apologize and keep being friends

Answer 5

Just like you hanging with some else all summer maybe she found some one to hang with also, You can't fault her for that or expect her to abandon her new friend, You will just have to compete for her time until you are BFFs again

Answer 6

there cannot be cheese and crackers together