I have big scars on my chest and there are a lot of guys with nicer bodies than me. Depressed about it?

Question

Girls won't like me.

Answer 1

ummm.... why do you have scars?

Answer 2

You just need to change your attitude!

Girls don't like sad sack guys! They want guys who are confident!

So you have some scars! Quit thinking about what you perceive is the reason why "girls won't like you" and start thinking about why they WOULD!

Believe it or not, everybody has something about their body they think is a drawback, when in reality, most people look beyond such frailties if they are truly interested in some one!

Answer 3

My daughters boyfriend is 15 and has had 3 open heart surguries and has a ton of chest scars and we tell him all the time his scars are sexxy. a girl shouldnt like you for your chest but your spirit.

Answer 4

First off, I'm evidently female, and I like scars. I find them attractive.

Secondly, if a girl dislikes you simply because you have scars, she isn't worth your time.

Answer 5

the crosses we have to bear are what make us strong, You may not understand now, but this is what builds character in people. Yes, it sucks to have noticable differences than the pretty boys, (I was a fat kid), but believe me, you will get through it, and it will be ok when you get older. It will, for example help you realize what a good woman is when you find one that accepts you for Who you are, instead of by outward appearances. It might not be easy right now, but it will be ok.

Answer 6

"Chicks dig scars"

Very, very true. I'm covered in them. (scars and women)

Answer 7

Scars make a man cooler (you can make up a bunch of stories on how you got them) and theres always the gym.

Answer 8

dont worry about it man

you cant do anythign about it but play it to your advantage

most girls will think its badass and you can say somthign like a shark attacked you

Answer 9

at least you've had a girl before, be proud of that

Answer 10

One thing you could consider would be to get a tattoo accross your chest in the area of the scarring. A lot of guys who have scars on their chest get tattoos to cover it up.

Just get in the gym to get a nicer body. Girls think that a toned body with muscles is attractive whether you have scars or not. Some girls even like scars. Workout (lift weights, crunches, sit ups, push ups) 3 times a week and do cardio (run 2 miles, treadmill, stair machine) or play a sport (basketball, raquetball, tennis, etc) a different 3 days in the week.

Oh and stay away from the hamburgers, cheetos, snickers bars, donuts, pepsi and beer (if you drink). Switch to fruit, salad, turkey sandwiches, water, juice and gatoraide. That will get your body in shape in about 2-3 months.

Answer 11

batman had scars

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