I have confronted my 2 boys but they reacted differently,how could i comfort them?

Question

i have asked this question already.but my problem still continues...

recently, i noticed that there were little holes in our bathroom door.cause i saw a light coming from outside when the lights in the bathroom are off. .i always take a shower every night before going to bed and noticed that i could be seen in the shower through the hole. i have'nt told my husband yet cause he might really get furious. i know little boys are curious about the female anatomy but boring a hole is too much and the fact that one of my two sons might actually be spying on me is just hard to believe.i could not suspect anyone else doing it because i only live with my husband(who is always out of town)and my 2 kids ( they are 9 and 11yo). by the way,I don’t think I’m that interesting for someone to look at, cause I dress conservatively and a little overweight.i hope I may be wrong, cause I feel awful and awkward with this situation. I want them to grow up to be normal and healthy kids. how should i open it up without embarrasing them?

update: i already covered the holes with a thick adhesive tape from inside the bathroom and still noticed that one of the tape was punctured. i did'nt confront them because i might overreact if they admit it, and as a mother i felt very disrespected. how should i handle this by myself? my husband wont be home for 2months.and i don't want them to be a pervert.

latest update: i told them that i know what they were doing,but their reaction was just silence, they did'nt admit nor deny it. did i over react? now i felt guilty confronting them. i did'nt expect it to

be this way. our closeness as a family might be ruined. some serious advice pls?

Answer 1

troll.

Answer 2

see this is why  people should be so obsessed about hiding their bodies from their kids. My boy and girl are 9 and come in the bathroom all the time when I am in the shower. There is nothing wrong with nudity and now your boys are curious and feeling it is wrong to wonder what a woman looks like. You need to sit down and talk with them about women and how their bodies are different. Explain what they did is not good as it is invading your privacy and if they have questions about the naked body then they can talk to you

Answer 3

i would say its curiosity.

point them to s*x education websites and let them see images "unsupervised" from :

http://www.russianbare.com

http://www.enature.tv

http://www.azovfilmscom

dont let them view the sites just copy images of your choice for them to see.

this effectively is not p**n and hopefully wont be viewed as such.

they will be getting s*x ed at school by now and they don't have a sister for past memory's of in the bath images to compare to the non-graphics used at school.

watching may or may not have innocent intentions but vandalism is punishable.

Answer 4

i recon you kids are probably up to no good rather than perving on you

kids are crafty. probably checking that your preoccupid while there up to somthing.

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Answer 5

You don't pussyfoot around with that one unless you want your boys to grow up to be peeping toms. Tell them straight out that someone drilled holes in the bathroom door and you will not tolerate that. Let them know that good boys don't peek at people in the bathroom or anywhere else for that matter and if it ever happens again you will punish them both if you can't find out who did it.

Answer 6

Quit asking this same sick perverted question...you probably drilled the holes...your SONS are the ones who SHOULD be worried!  If anything you are a Child Molestor! You ARE DISGUSTING! PIG!!! QUIT sharing your SICK Fantasies with us...PLEEEEEEZ!!!

Answer 7

Look it's a bird, no it's a plane, no it's super troll!!!