I have constant vaginal discharge. its embarassing?

Question

i did the research and people say its normal. but its always on my underwear, and i have a boyfriend, whenever i want to have s*x with him... i have to go through this whole process and make sure i clean out down there and there isnt any on my underwear. im sure it would be a big turn off. guys dont understand that. does anyone know any ways to get rid of it?

Answer 1

Wear a panty liner.  This is the best way to handle your problem.  If you don't wear a panty liner the discharge could start to smell.

Answer 2

You should use panty shields and get yourself to the health department.

You are probably embarrassed because you have no shame.

Keep it to yourself and abstain from having s*x until you have it checked out by a physician.

It could be normal for you, but it can be a sign of STD's.

Answer 3

Nothing is more beautiful than sticking your hand down a women's pants/ panties a feeling how hot and moist she is!!! OMG! Now I'm wet!

Answer 4

No way to get rid of it.

Just turn it in to something s**y.

Like when your boyfriend goes to take off your underwear,

Just tell him it's because he's making you wet.

He'll be so turned on by your words,

he wont even care about your underwear.

Answer 5

There's no way to get rid of it. It's natural. All women have it. And when you're sexually excited, you get more, so that you can be lubricated for s*x. Guys find that to be a turn ON, because it means you're really excited to have s*x with him. If you're cleaning it out down there, then, if your guy knows anything, he's probably wondering "why is she so dry? Does she not want to have s*x?" If you clean it all out and then he's glad because he doesn't want you to be wet, then that's a strong sign of insecurity and lack of knowledge on his part. Be a strong, confident woman who is not ashamed of her body! Be happy that your body is working the way it should! Date only men who love women's bodies, not plastic mannequins. And if a guy objects or is turned off, then turn that around on HIM for not liking real women's bodies but adhering to some crazy, unreal standard.

Answer 6

A lot of Woman have a constant vaginal discharge, it's completely normal. I really don't think your boyfriend would care unless he's an a--hole and in that case, why are you even dating him? If your partner doesn't love you enough to except you for you, and that includes vaginal discharge, then he doesn't deserve you! If there's really a lot of discharge though and it's seriously bothering you, I know a lot of woman just get used to wearing a panty-liner all the time to keep their pants cleaner.

Also- here's a link to an amazing Livejournal community that can help you with any v****a problems you may encounter.

http://community.livejournal.com/vaginap...

Answer 7

Yeah, it's normal (I mean, do you really want a bone dry v****a?).  Excessive discharge isn't, so you may want to see a gynecologist if you suspect something is wrong.  But really, it's a fact of life so you shouldn't worry about it.  Your boyfriend's not going to be looking at your underwear when you're standing there without any...

Answer 8

there is no way sweety its normal do not be embraced its the female body its the way it works  

Answer 9

look baby doll i dont think theres any way to get rid of that.... but if your bf really likes you and really care about you he would not pay attention to it like on that way... if he does get another one...  

Answer 10

my sister went through the same thing. go to your obgyn and ask about what they recommend...it could just mean you're ovulating.

Answer 11

No way to get rid of it... its totally normal though, some women just get more "wet" than others... try using a pantie liner to help it from getting on your underwear.

Answer 12

Oh my god, if your douchebag of a BF doesn't LIKE it, he's got a problem!! There is NOTHING wrong with some homemade panty pudding!

Answer 13

I received that same issue after I switched my birth control.  My doctor said it was the ph balance along with the boost of hormones.  Best way to get rid of it is to maintain your sanity and realize it is a fact of life and your boyfriend needs to be reminded his "pre-come" is exactly the same thing.

Answer 14

panty liners

Answer 15

actually guys think its a turn on. cuz they know that your wet. you could just wear pantyliners then go to the bathroom before you have s*x with him and take it off then come back and then have s*x you know?!  

Answer 16

I have know people who have this problem . I have also learned after many years they really don't care its more in our heads . I know that i have to feel clean to be in the mood and my husband does not care if i smell like cleaning products. I do know from f others that some men love the smell and wetness  ( i know gross) they like the fact it makes s*x easier. I uses to carry wet ones in my purses . I know this really bugs women but it does not men good luck .