I have had this problem for a while and though I'm learning to cope with it (the more I want to get rid of it, the more it persists) I still would love to make eye contact. I know that it could be related to the fact that I have little self-esteem, but I also feel it's like a weird psychological thing that I have. I try with all of my energy to focus on people's eyes, but my eyes focus on the nose instead. Since I know this is really weird, I try to either look elsewhere or on the forehead, I squint, I do everything I can, but it's really tiring and gives me aheadache. Does anyone else have this problem? I can't understand why something so easy (to make eye contact) is so difficult. I know it could be related to social anxiety, but the thing is I have been and still am REALLY trying to focus on eyes. Thing is, the results (zero), make me depressed. I'm afraid this is why many people do not like me or want to be friends with me. My intentions are not mean though, I don't do this on purpose so why are people so weirded out by this habit of mine? I cannot go to a psychiatrist now, so does anyone have any suggestion? I think the thing that is upsetting me the most is the fact that people think I'm strange or rude.
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