I have dreams and fantasy's about being womens hair ...?

Question

all i can ever think about is being a girls hair.. yes i have a hair fetish . So i guess my question is two fold , One are there any girls out there willing to talk to me a little bit about thier hair ? And two has ANYONE ever heard of this before ? I walk by salons and get turned on trying not to make it noticible that i am looking over .. I dream / wish i was a hair on a girls head .. wow i cant believe i typed this ..

Answer 1

Fetishes of any kind cannot be addressed or understood if left entirely in the realm of generalities. It's like saying 'there's a pain in my stomach, what's wrong with me?'

Even with people who have fetishes, many revolve around specific circumstances/details that underly the reason for the fetish in the first place. Having a panty fetish, for example, doesn't mean that every style, color and type of panty out there affects you the same. While the person might respond stronger to panties than they do to b*****s, mid-high cotton panties would make them more excited than purple thongs, which tells us something about why the person is having the fetish in the first place.

Fetishes are often doorways, places where the person feels emotionally stable and/or comfortable enough to begin exploring the idea of sexuality and bonding with another. Having a hair fetish is your mind and body's way of both trying to narrow the type of people whom you would be compatible with (if you have a short hair fetish, don't date girls with long hair, for example) and having an 'object' that you can safely fantasize about before moving on and exploring the person underneath.

Just about any aspect of a human being's existence can be cause for a fetish (a fetish about wanting to be someone's breath or air is more unusual than having a hair fetish) so its more about listening to what the fetish is trying to tell you than it is about 'fixing' the problem.

Answer 2

Yeh, what exactly is your purpose in informing us about your eagerness for hair.  Is it to express yourself?  To bond? To come out of the closet? To ...what.  What is your purpose in this communication? When you know that, you write back or better yet don't, few want to befriend a wannabe louse.

Answer 3

hey! don't worry about it . most guys have some kind of fetish when it comes to girls. you are just being normal. also lots of girls like being admired for their hair. why do you think they spend so much time in the beauty parlour? try to get a woman not to talk about her hair.