I have failed in my efforts to find a girl who'll love me. Does that mean I deserve to be lonely?

Question

even if I'm a good person?

with the amount of rejections I've got, I'm seriously beginning to doubt myself. I'm 28 now and have been trying since I got a job at 22 to find a girl but have failed. I stopped looking about 2 years ago and don't beleive in myself anymore.

Any words of advice?

Answer 1

you have failed ? and now u r  worried to live  alone , whats there to be  alone ,  since u r not only the one  to do so ,many  people  are  still happy and  alone ,  hey if u  are getting milk to  drink why do  u want to have  cow ?

Answer 2

NO u dont and u wont be forever  

Answer 3

If YOU do not believe in yourself, or love yourself, you will give that message to others, what you mirror is what you will attract to yourself, for example, if you put out anger, others will become defensive and mirror it back to you" if you suround your self in negative thoughts you will suround, and put yourself in that enviroment, people like to be around positive and happy people, don't you?  you will only be a failure if you CHOOSE to be.  

Answer 4

You haven't failed. You aren't dead yet, are you? I recommend a book called "Cracking the Love Code" by, I think, Janet O'Neale or someone like that. Girls are not attracted to underconfident men, so find something to boost yours back up. Find a hobby or something. Work on a skill, join a group and volunteer. Do you actually go anywhere to meet girls?

Answer 5

What are you doing to meet women?  Sitting at home moping will not help you find love.

Its 2008, times have changed.  Most single people I know have met people off dating sites.  My friends have had a lot of luck with one if you are interested in creating a free profile.  I will provide the link for you below.

Won't hurt to check it out.  Just be you!  There is someone out there for everyone.  You have to go find her, she's waiting for you!

Answer 6

First of all, are you constantly meeting new women?

YOU HAVE TO MEET THEM TO FIND ONE.

Secondly, she will come around. I only found me dream man a month ago.

You do not deserve it!

Answer 7

Do drugs.  If you want to meet girls.  Girls in the drug scene are easy to talk to, and genrally more open minded. Meet Girls, Build Confidence through your encounters, and then stop doing drugs.  At least the dangerous ones.  By that time you should know some girls and their friends, and friends of their friends whom don't nessicarily do drugs or party all the time.  I'm just telling you from my life experiance. It worked for me.

Answer 8

dont give up,. you will find that special girl when the time is right, im sure you are a great guy, just give it some more time, and when you least expect it, it will happen. good luck

Answer 9

no you do not deserve to be lonely. somewhere out there is your dream girl who is looking for you. just be patient and one day you will meet her!