I have feelings for my best friend. What should I do?

Question

I’ve known my best friend for 2 yrs. I then moved to another state. A few months later she moved to the same state. I really love her. But I don’t know If she has a BF. How can I show her my feelings?

Answer 1

First things first, you need to find out if she has a BF. Since you are really good friends with her this should not be very hard information to get. It could easily be brought up in conversation between two good friends.

If she doesn’t have a boyfriend then you now have to show your feelings to her. This can be awkward, especially between people who have been just “friends” for so long. The best plan we see is to write her a letter. Take a couple hours and write her a detailed letter explaining exactly how you feel about her. Just in case she does not feel this way as well, you want to include in the letter that you don’t want things to be awkward or weird between you both. Basically assuring her that your friendship can still be strong if she doesn’t feel the same way.

After you write this letter you can see how she feels about it by asking her if she got it and what she thought. If she seems awkward and doesn’t want to talk about it maybe suggest her writing you a letter back so she can express herself better. Hope everything works out!

Answer 2

well i say you do it but don't.

i was dating my best friend and well it didn't  last..now our friend ship sucks..and we were best friends for 3 years it was going to be 4 this year.

Answer 3

by telling her