I have found out my partner is cheating on me for a younger woman

Question

She is 35 he is 50 she is a work colleague of his what should i do about it? Will it last because of the age difference? Or should I walk away or confront him about it?

Answer 1

Talk to him about it perhaps... it's not always easy for someone to walk away from a relationship that you've had for many years. If you're financially able to leave then its a good option to consider of course.

It's a tough one this ... all the best, I hope things workout for you.

Answer 2

You've got to realise first that you are worth more than to be treated like that. From personal experience I've found that once someone has broken that important trust in a relationship, it's never fully repairable because you'll always question everything in your head. Whether they last or not isn't the point. You need to decide if you can ever fully forget, trust and move on from this stage with this man or if you are worth more- which I'm very sure you are- to move on from him altogether and show him that you will not be walked over and treated this way after all you have put in to the relationship. You'll be ok.

Answer 3

You have to decide what is best for you.. First off have you discussed this with him? Is he still in love with you? Does he want to try to make things work with you? By partner i assume yall aren't married so it makes things much easier.

Answer 4

Walk away . if hes is cheating . i would be gone .. A cheater never changes , I wouldnt even waste my time confronting him ..  

Answer 5

dump him

Answer 6

take him to the cleaners....

Answer 7

Honestly, can u live with him now  - if you answer this qn it will solve the problem.

Answer 8

Go to his work (looking your best) and present her with a suitcase full of his belongings and tell her she is welcome to the cheating liar. Then walk away with your head held high.

Answer 9

Personally id have confronted them both, as soon as id found out?

Answer 10

Try to evaluate your relationship and weigh up why this has happened and what could have caused him to do this.  Has the relationship broken down recently, has there been increased stress over a problem be it relationship oor something else?

At the end of theday he's cheating on you, even if he apologies and tells you it was a mistake and that it wont happen again, it will always be there eating away and the trust level will never fully recover.  Plus theres the fact that if hes done it once, he will be prone to doing it again.

You need to think long and hard about whether this can be repaired, if he shows remorse for his actions and your both prepared to work through it.  

Answer 11

leave hiim no guy is worth it

Answer 12

Dump him.  He cannot be trusted.