I have friend troubles?

Question

i just started high school this week. i met a girl named sam, but im not sure if shes really my friend or not. i get this horrible vibe off of her sometimes. but when we talk, its like totally awkward. and she ignores me when ever im around unless i talk to her. and sometimes shes seems ashamed to talk to me. what should i do? should i drop her as a friend or should i continue to be nice and see what happens?

Answer 1

Then that's not ur friend

if u've had other friends that did the same thing

then a friend is a person that talks to you anytime and about anything

and it wouldn't fell awkward when you talk to them

Answer 2

no find other ppl who will actually be nice to u!

shes not ur friend.

Answer 3

Sweetheart, you're just a freshman. Between now and your Senior year, you'll probably both gain and lose more friends than you can count on your hands.

My advice is that if you don't fully trust her, don't hang around her, and if she talks to you about other people, she will talk about you.

Good luck and remember, it's only high school.

Answer 4

Go with your instinct. She sounds bad from what you've described. Drop her.

Answer 5

She seems to be treating you as her backup friend.  As in the friend she only comes to when she has no one else to talk to. Find some true friends and just forget about her.  Don't be rude if she talks to you....just don't talk to her alot