I have had s*x at 15 is it bad?

Question

me and my bf have been dating for a year and the other night we had s*x, we used protection and everything do you think that is bad i usually tell my mum everything should i tell her??

Answer 1

you steel have your hole life Had of you you don't what to end up not having kids when you get married soon and you the one saying to your husbands that you can't give him any of andy kids then you would wish that you should of whatted unilt that day came know when you meat some for the rest of are hol life really you just got to thing about that before you go anyy farther ok.

Answer 2

I am not going to judge you on what you did but you have your whole life ahead of you and what if something happened?? What if the condom broke?? Really you must use common sense. Your whole life could be changed from that one expierence. I would suggest think wisely about your choices from now on. If you got pregnant what would happen to your life?? Serious choices are need in this world now. I would suggest you don't do it again unless you want your life to be complete turmoil. Listen to your mind in situations like these.

Good Luck.

Answer 3

as long as you're smart with it and he's under 18

make sure you don't regret it and that you're mom is comfortable with that .

and consider birth control because trust me condoms don't always work. makes sure other guys don't find out either because that could give you a bad name and come back to you in the future. just use your brain and remember all people are different and at different maturity levels , you like alot of people could be ready .  good luck and don't let what these people are saying get to you they probablyjust need to get laid themselves.

Answer 4

if you want 2 die admit nothing and yes it is bad!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

You are too young for that. What would you do if the condom broke? Mistakes happen you know.  Then what? You would get pregnant and I don't think you would want to be a mom at that age. Trust me, you have your whole life to have s*x. Having s*x with someone that is called your husband is magical. Having s*x because you have been going out for a while just because is wrong. Trust me if you got pregnant that guy wouldn't stick around for you. He will split. Think before you do this again. It can happen with just one sperm sneaking out. Mistakes do happen all the time. I hope the guy sticks around after having you. Hope no rumors goes around on you either.  

Answer 6

Hey what's done is done.

Don't beat yourself up over it!

There really is no bad or good.

Unless you don't feel good about it and you were pressured into it. Then yes it is bad.

But at least it is someone you have been with for a year and possibly you love him.

You two obviously planned it and really yeah a condom is quite safe especially if he uses it right away because sperm can be released before ejaculation. Ok so condoms can sometimes break (rarely) so what? You can get run over by a car crossing the street. Condoms are much healthier for you than Birth Control hormones.

As far as telling your Mom you are the best judge of that but perhaps your mom suspects and maybe she is more comfortable suspecting than knowing maybe you should just give it time.