I have hair on my back (entire back!) and though I do regular waxing I wanna be able to wear sleeveless open?

Question

back shirts when it gets all hot and steamy outside. Any recommendations for what can I do? Also, is it even acceptable to wear open back shirts when your hair is grown to a length that people can see it? Would that be considered embarrassing? Though I have never done that I don't know how would that be looked at?

Answer 1

You would be surprised how much others DON'T care about how hairy you are or aren't or indeed how much you remove or don't remove or how often.

I got sick of being so hairy about 3 years ago and I decided to have my back waxed.  Since then I have "graduated" up to having my whole body waxed (back, shoulders, chest, abdomen, buttocks and legs; not forearms or private area (or face/head!)) every 2 or 3 months or so.  I would go more often to stay hair free but it gets too expensive.

I like the feeling of being hair free and it's something I choose to do for myself.  My wife isn't bothered either way and we love each other just as much, hairy or not.

Equally, it's relatively unusual for a man to have waxed smooth legs unless they are a bodybuilder, swimmer or other athlete/model but when I have worn shorts amongst strangers or friends or family, no one has ever said anything.  Nor has anyone even given any indication at all that they have even noticed.

The point I am trying to make is that if you want to wax your back, that's fine if it makes you feel better and good about yourself.  If you have a good physique, being hair free will definitely enhance your muscularity but if you want to wear an open backed shirt and you haven't got around to waxing for a while and the hair is a bit long, REALLY don't worry about it because actually no one is that judgemental or even interested in your or my hirsuitness.

Answer 2

Who care what others think! Do what you please.