I have heard rumours that my violent brother is a rapist....?

Question

And just yesterday morning he was making fun of the fact, that i got raped a year ago.

I want nothing to do with him, but the more I think about it, the more i am convinced those rumours are true.

he is violent, but only towards women and children.

how would u deal with this?

Answer 1

pleasent guy, ignore and watch the fool. just because hes related doesnt mean you should give any more benifit than anyone else.

if you have evidence call the police.

sorry i have no idea of you situation so i cant advice you on how to deal with him, beyond see a psych

Answer 2

I'd definitely keep a distance from him.... he is not a healthy person to be around.

Also, inform your female friends... especially ones with teenage daughters... to be cautious around  him.

Answer 3

you don't need someone like that in your life i would just disown him and have nothing to do with him.

Answer 4

I would have a turkey sandwich.

Answer 5

When he is not home call the police and then call a nearby faimly member and stay with them until you settle it out but thats only if your staying/living with him

Answer 6

lord of the flies i find your answer offensive i'm mixed race and it is not only black boys that are violent and are rapists!

one thing how can he make fun of you for being raped? are brothers not suppose 2 protect their sisters? f**king men you should call the police publically humiliate him and then dump his **** so he knows he does not have a sister anymore.

Answer 7

I would suggest you put him out of your life.    

And find out why he hasn't been prosecuted - or investigated.

Answer 8

Troll, has history of asinine attention seeking questions, go have s*x with that entire Rugby Team again,your large schnoo schnoo should be able to handle things, and come back when you have something true and intelligent to say. Go spread your usual sick rumours and stop trying to drag people on Y/A into sick fantasy world. While here, you may want to keep your questions and answers private, that,s what sick fantasists like you do, it stops people from knowing what a fake you are. Goodbye.

Answer 9

You have heard rumours and if you are a woman, that is enough proof that he is a rapist in any court of law.  Go ahead and get him punished.

Answer 10

First get him a psychiatrist. Since you said children is a huge issue for him. He even has made fun of the fact that you got raped. Try to talk to the girls he raped and go to the police. Next time he talks about it, try to record what he said, legally.

Answer 11

Even though he is my brother, for something so terrible, I would call the police. Is there anyway you can get more details though? Confront him about it (you say he's 'only' violent towards women and children ie people who can't fight back-perhaps you shouldn't!).

Answer 12

do you need to even ask this question? go and report him

Answer 13

You can't trust a person like that. Even if he's your brother. Stay away from him, and make sure you are never alone with him.  Obviously there are traumatic things that can happen and to someone like that its just a walk in the park.

Answer 14

Call the Police

Answer 15

You have no idea how much I hate guys like that. Why was he making fun of you for something that was out of your control. I am sorry to hear that, that is every women's worst nightmare.

I would get more dirt on him. I am a forensics investigator/ detective if he raped someone where I live I will find his *** and put him to jail for 15 or more years. No one escapes my eagle eyes.

Just block him from your life. Next thing you know he is a murderer. You will put yourself in danger if you are near him so do not be with him without someone for a second.

Answer 16

Call the police and recommend that they surgically remove his testicles.

Answer 17

I wouldn't 'deal' with it - I'd file a report with the police - pronto.

Answer 18

Do NOT trust rumours. Violence does not always mean rapist. He doesn't sound like a particularly nice person, and I would probably avoid associating with him, but also I wouldn't jump to a conclusion like that without solid evidence. He has the right to be treated as innocent when you have no objective reason to think otherwise. Rumours are unreliable.

If you felt up to it, you could confront him about these rumours, I'm not sure how much good it would do - it would depend on how you think he would react.

Answer 19

He needs to reported to the police if this is true especially if he is being violent towards children. I think you are right to have nothing to do with him, no one needs someone like that in their life.

Answer 20

Stardust said it too.  I too, have a POS brother, he kicked my teeth in when I was 17, and he molested my daughter while I was at work some years later.  People don't change.  I want Nothing! to do with the other 6 kids in my family, and my parents are both dead, so as far as family, my family is myself, my daughter and my ex-husband.  Who needs these pieces of sh*t in our lives?  If you can notify someone of brothers behavior problem, to keep him from harming someone else do it. No explanation necessary, just walk away, and yes, just because we had the misfortune to be born into the same family, doesn't mean we have to spend the rest of our lives being punished for it, or suffering .  Oh, and the reason he is only violent towards women and children, is because he is ball-less, and if he tried to hit a guy or rape a guy, the other guys would beat the sh*t out of him, and he doesn't want himself hurt. From reading this story, the feeling for me is that it is true, and I would stay as far away from him, for the rest of your life, as possible. Some say family is everything.  I say family is a group of people, and when they pull their c**p, it is time to walk away and find other people who don't treat you like c**p. Oh, and the reason he was making fun of you, about your getting raped, is because he wanted to get his rocks off, hearing you talk about it, and watching you get upset.  Nice guy.  Glad I don't have to know him.

Answer 21

name and shame him he'll get his come upons!

Answer 22

You've just heard rumors. You can't go to the police because you heard rumors.

Answer 23

All men are rapists.

Answer 24

:O :O :O

OMG

Fone the police

Answer 25

get him out of your life

Answer 26

I would never speak to him again, try to get far away from him. Just because you had the misfortune to be born in the same family doesnt mean you have to put up with him