I have know idea what to do...?

Question

Well there is this guy and i like him. But i told him that i need to wait cause i dont feel like im ready to date just yet. He got made/sad and said that i broke his heart and stuff but i still do like him and he said when i was ready he will date me but can never think of me the same again. and h**l go out with me when im ready but he said it wouldnt be serious. what do i do??

Answer 1

this kind of sounds like what im dealing with...but i actually dated this girl but were done now. the relationship was great...we loved each other. but she started feeling doubts that we'd last once school started up again...and the doubts winded up taking over her. she told me she was no longer in love with me but she still loved me (i dunno what that means) and she needed time. that hurt me so much inside knowing she lost love for me. she says she wants to be friends but she cant see me as a friend right now soo i told her 'hey u got my number...call me sometime when yur ready' and im still waiting after maybe a week and a half...

what im saying is i feel his pain and i doubt he means he'll see you the same. maybe he just wont feel the same but tthatll change as time goes on. i say take yur time cause time really does help alot of problems

hope it helped somehow

Answer 2

tell him to get off. just because of a small setback, he can't take it, he aren't a man.

you deserve better.

you will feel ready to date when you find the right guy.

he's not the one for you.

move on.

Answer 3

if he understands u..then he wont be all that emotional.. he's just hot for u like about 30 secs i wud say... say NO!!!... tell him to get a life..if thats how he is... stuck up and all... its not like.. giving u sometime wud cause him any lost...

Answer 4

u can say sorrry to him or arrange a party 4 him and make announcement in that party that i luv u so i m ready to marry u and if u luv him so y don't u be just ready for marriage just for him.  

Answer 5

This almost sounds like he's not emotionally mature enough for a relationship, serious or not.  But I would not waste my time on a man that says things like that and acts in a way that is hurtful to you, especially when you were honest with him!

Answer 6

The guy sounds like a total pu##y.  Date him, don't you think it would be fun watching your boyfriend get beat up everywhere you go together?

Answer 7

You can do SOOO much better than a guy that is that immature! He should respect your wishes

Answer 8

Find someone else when you're ready to date.?

Answer 9

Well if you're looking for something serious, he isn't you guy. Obviously if he would of been a good nice guy, he would of understood and still ike you just as much when you're ready. So I think you should just never think of dating him and find yourself a better man.