I have known this girl for 6 years i have dated her for 2 month's but alway's loved her should i ask to marry

Question

I have known this girl for 6 years i have dated her for 2 month's but alway's loved her should i ask to marry

Answer 1

As you have been dating for only 2 months, maybe wait a little while and then follow your heart.

Answer 2

you know the answer..

Answer 3

yes and tell her u have always loved her

Answer 4

No, I think you should wait until dating turns into a relationship. You may know her for 6 years but dating is different and especially once a relationship has evolved then the true person comes out and you will then see if she is the right person you want to marry.

Answer 5

yes

Answer 6

no, it's too soon just wait a few months, having a friendship with someone is very different then having a relationship. But I guess it's up to you, just listen to your heart.....

Answer 7

If you still want to in another six months , yes. No reason to rush it and you do not  have much one to one knowledge of her at this point.

Answer 8

That is for you to decide but I say go for it.

Answer 9

Way too soon!! You may have known her for a long time but she hasn't been your girlfriend for a long time...and believe me we are totally different once we become your girlfriend (or boyfriend). I would wait.

Answer 10

if you have the resposiblity and the courage...

Answer 11

The heart is a very poor guide.  Feelings should be there, but they should not be the standard for your actions.  What will you do when your feelings change, and they will.  Marriage is about commitment beyond feelings.  A good marriage is based on knowledge and with knowledge you can make your relationship stronger as the years go by.  Feelings follow your emotional investment.  When you commit yourself to another, the more you invest yourself the more your heart grows toward your spouse.  There will be days when you grow tired of her company, days when you actually hate each other, but with the commitment, you will grow to know a greater devotion than feelings can provide.

Go slow, study her, and allow her to study you.  Know her faults and weigh them against her positive attributes.  When you know you can live with her faults and she knows your faults and accepts you in spite of them, then you can commit to a level that will last a lifetime.

The way to know someones faults in a dating relationship is to watch her with people she has no emotional investment in.  If she is kind to the waiter, if she shows value for her father and brothers, you know she will value you when she doesn't feel that value.  If she is short tempered with waiters and valets or the like, if she has no respect for brothers and father, then consider these red flags, because she will loose respect for you.  She should be studying you in the same way.

Also, I recommend when you do get engaged, go for pre-marital counseling.  This is a great tool for establishing legitimate expectations for the marriage.  A counselor can guide you through the issues that can ruin a marriage before the first year is up.  If you have imagined all your life that you will have a horde of children and she expects to raise 1 or 2 or vice versa, then right away you have something that will wind up straining your commitment to one another, but it won't show up until you're well into the commitment.

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Answer 12

How romantic!  I say go for it!

Answer 13

NO!!! quick marriages lead to quick divorces. Don't ask her until you have lived with her for a year. Trust me I am a female.

Answer 14

Go for it, buddy. I'm sure she'd be so excited.

Answer 15

you know her for 6 years . u will still be knowing her for another 60 years.go ahead and ask her before u loose here

Answer 16

Are you crazy? You have only just got it together with her. Wait a bit, she might not be all that or she might have a habit (like farting in bed) that you don't like or something OR heaven forbid, she might cool things with you.

If you ask her now all you are going to do is scare her. Don't do it!

When you have been with her for six months and things are still going great then move to the next stage, which would probably be thinking about living together, but if that is not possible, then marriage is the way forward. I would wait to six months then if all is still good wait another 3 months then if all is good ask her.

All the best with it anyway

Answer 17

how the heck does she feel about you?  

Marry in haste, repent in leisure.......