I have low confidence.?

Question

What can I do to boost my confidence? I feel ugly and fat.

Answer 1

Quit calling yourself ugly and fat. Every human who embraces themselves for who they are and accept others the same way are beautiful, you must believe that.Self worth and value are important. Find something that you can praise yourself about and seek to learn ways to exemplify that in your everyday life.

Answer 2

Exercising will make you feel good, whether you're "thin" or "fat".  I hate using those terms.  Try to get to the bottom of why you feel this way about yourself.  Only then will you be able to make a change.  Do you compare yourself to others?  If so then you need to stop.  I do that too and trust me, it doesn't do any good for my self esteem.  Treat yourself like a queen and you will soon feel like one :))--God Bless

ps-I'm half asleep right now so my response was limited, but if you have any questions about how you can bring your self esteem up just email me: [e-mail]

Answer 3

Write a list of all the things you love about yourself. Or get other people to write a list of all the things they love you for :]

Answer 4

exercise

buy some makeup

and spend a day pampering yourself:)

manicure, pedicure, face mask, all the good stuff.

you'll feel better.

&dont worry, most people do have low confidence.

it's perfectly normal.

Answer 5

need to stop think negative things..teach your mind to always think positive. If theres something in the way then fix it or do it, or learn to except for who you are.

Answer 6

You may not remain low on confidence. There are many people like you. I have seen people with disabilities move about with great confidence. Why? Simply because they could compensate their lack of a proper body with something else. So figure out what is it that you are really good at. What is your forte? Accentuate it. Make it better, and if possible, the best, and you will stand out in a crowd, like so many people do. Also, do something like swimming or aerobics to reduce your fat. This will make you feel less ugly as well. No one has it easy, and from those who do, very few know how to retain their heads on their shoulders.