I have married my own cousin brother 1 month ago?

Question

i m married to my cousin brother but he his 7 yrs elder n had been a terror for me always .........but now members frm his family to give them a child.......n now the thing is dat v hve nvr seen each oders with that angle n moreover he has nvr done any thing .........plz advice wat shud i do????????

Answer 1

Can you write that in Hindi and inform what exactly you wish to ask about as English seems to have lost touch of existence in your case?

Regards

Vinay

Answer 2

Either you are confused or been forced to marraige... either way if you are asking about s*x then answer is simple, be close and together for sometime.

Answer 3

I remember reading a report that there cannot be any genetic problems even if you are married to cousins and such offsprings.

Answer 4

This sounds like an arranged marriage, is that right?  I am not an authority on this but a gentleman we met in malaysia was in the same situation and was worried sick, so the worry can be had by men aswell.  You need to talk to each other first and become easy and familiar to each others ways.  If you become comfortable in each others company, then the rest may follow a little more naturally.  John (we will call him that for now), said he made his marriage work as have many malaysians and you can become very good friends.  I hope that I have been of help.

Answer 5

Its your choice to have a child. If you need help ask your own family to remove you from the situation. Good luck girlie!

Answer 6

You have to do something or else tell the elders about it so that it will not be a problem. As days pass by you will be pressurised more, so think & act soon.

pkn

Answer 7

hey its only a month u got married so u first understand each other . then everything will be good .don't worry

have a nice and wonderful married life

Answer 8

how can cousins marry i have never understood this!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ofcourse u wont see each other with that angle and if u didnt why did u marry??????if you dont want child dont bring why do u have to bring for his family???/those who want a child can bring themselves why tell u?

by the way, i know 3 couples who are married several years and have no children. one is 50yrs married another is 6 yrs married. they have fertility problems.

Answer 9

So, u want to say u didn't had s*x. And u want to have child.

U seems to be Hindu. As per Hindu Civil Laws, Cousin marriage is not allowed.

Anyway, If u r married, better start looking at each other as husband and wife, instead of brother-sister. It is just in ur mind. Think about him. Have s*x. U will feel wonderful.

Then child is the bi-product :))