I have my first boyfriend but he acts more like a friend?

Question

we were pretty good friends about a three months ago, we became gf and bf but he still acts like my friend-like messing with me, teasing and stuff, i think he's just shy or embarrassed because he's really sweet in emails he sends hearts on them and stuff but when were at school he wont hug me or anything what do to make him know that no one really cares if he has a girlfriend, saying it is not an option, do i need to say awkward! i just want us to be more girlfriendy boyfriendy. any ideas

only our friends know no one else-thats how embarrassed he is!

Answer 1

awww maybe he don't won't public affection.

Im exacly the same as your bf tbh...don't like people knowing..i like my privacy..it doesnt mean he don't like you

if you two are with eachother alone outside of school..im SURE he would act more like a bf...give it a try...he obviously likes you...sending emails with hearts on etc. Just give him the benifit of the doubt..he perhps is just shy..xo

Answer 2

Having a bf or gf that is your friend is the single most important element of any relationship...you are very lucky. Be patient it will be worth it

Answer 3

It's not like you're 16?  What the h**l does that mean, you're all children to us!

Answer 4

hiya, boys are very shy at that age,more so when other people are around.they try to act big in front of there mates.they don't want to be named Sissy.your b/f is not alone on this,most teenagers are the same.girls are a lot more forward than boys.you will see a difference when you are on your own with him.he will be kissing and cuddling you all the time nobody is around.you can tell by that, with the emails he sends you.don't worry when he gets a bit older, he will not be has shy.have a great time, and have loads of fun.xx

Answer 5

he's probably just shy and scared.  He doesn't know what you want out of it either probably.  I remember my first boyfriend, he took 2 months after "dating" to even kiss me! and he asked me first cause he was so scared that I wouldn't want him to.  My advice, you know you like each other, so why don't you just go for it and make a move....go for a walk somewhere at lunch and grab his hand, or when no one can see you in the hallway give him a little kiss (even just on the check)

Answer 6

he sounds like he's a boy who's your friend..not your boy friend..is the relationship physical?