I have my "baby daddy staying with me . He has no job. He claims he lookin' but the lokkin' has exspanded int

Question

I need money what she I do? Should continue to support him?

Answer 1

of course anyone could say "oh h**l no kick him out girl"

but the reality of this is that its easier said than done.

this is your baby's father and i knw that you are still emotionally connected to him.if it were me i would give him a choice:either go get a job or get out.

give him a time frame also,and let him knw ur serious about your word.

if he does this, then this will be a start and all is well.

but if not girl make him leave.

becuz if he cant take you seriously,he doesnt deserve u or ur help.

good luck.

Answer 2

No, kick his butt out. No man would sit back and let a single mother (of his very own child) support his sorry a r s e!  He should be working to help support his child.  

Answer 3

i agree with hksw08 well said!!!

Answer 4

Honestly, dump him out the door like yesterdays trash... If he can't support his child and is leaching off of you, why keep him around?

You can probably do a whole lot better than him; and you will certainly do a whole lot better without him.

Cheers!

Answer 5

no find a place with out him knowing and leave what you have behind with him and start fresh and find another place. Then you work on your self to look after you and your child..your baby is 1 won at this point and your self too..when your stressed out it doesn't help your self or the baby. When you leave him and don't tell him..he gets stuck with the rent in that place and the owner/landlord will kick him out..if he finds you don't let him back in your life and don't let him treat hen you he is the father of your baby and making your feel you have to..you don't..your not married to him and he is called a dead beat dad. if you can see if a family member will help you out to move in there place until you find a place of your own..have them even help you move out. or you can find a place to move to and once you have it worked out for the new place..make him go out and look for a job that day..and once he is gone pick up your stuff and go. You need to look out for number 1