I have never did this before?should i be worried?

Question

i cant ***.

i havent ever been able too.

my boyfriend is doing all the right things?

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Answer 1

no hes not

Answer 2

ur boyfriend is doing fine

not every women is able to o****m

sorry

Answer 3

I think it might just be you not your boyfriend

Answer 4

If you are never able to do it by yourself, it's highly unlikely you'll be able to with your boyfriend. That's just too much pressure.

You have to be really comfortable to be able to. Maybe you should spend a little more time with yourself and get use to what you like. If that doesnt work, there are female stimulating "gels" that help.

In the meantime, be safe and just enjoy yourself.

Oh and, some women never can, so don't feel bad, that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.

Answer 5

a lot of girls have problems reaching the elusive big O.  most have to litterally take matters into their own hands.  It is most likely you and not him!!

Answer 6

most likely not. tell him to watch some good p**n and maybe he'll get better

Answer 7

You shouldn't be worried. Many women, even after years of s*x with different partners, are not able to o****m without direct clitoral stimulation. It is in the way your body is shaped. If you are speaking only of o****m during vaginal intercourse, it is not only up to your boyfriend to make you o****m. You can help yourself along by learning more about your body and how to work it. Try different positions, try putting a pillow or two under your bottom, try taking control yourself and see if you can make it happen. Have you ever had an o****m from oral s*x, or by yourself? If not, I would suggest spending some time alone. If you can bring yourself to o****m, you can show him how to do it, or do it yourself during intercourse with him. Just relax, don't pressure yourself or him, and communicate. Good luck!

Answer 8

This should help:

http://howtohitgspot.com/

Answer 9

Whoa Dude, He Needs To Have Experince To Do That. Not Just Fingering U Know...But U Can Tell Him To Watch Squirting p**n. He Might Learn Who Knows? U Should It Try To See Urself Though.Try Something Hard :P Ofcourse Its Ur Body...I Guess Its A Little hard For Females, But For Guys No Need For Experince, ITS AWSOME DUDE!!! Well Best Of Luck.

Answer 10

It is very possible that your bf is doing all the right things, only not doing them for a long enough time.

Tell him that it just takes girls a lot longer to get off and hopefully he will not be in a hurry and stop when he is satisfied.