I have never had an o****m, or been close, I am 33 & have 4 children with my husband of 14 years. ?

Question

I have been married for 14 years & have 4 great kids. My husband is HOT & I enjoy having s*x, but am never fulfilled. My husband & I used to try lots of different positions, creams, toys, etc - but nothing. I am afraid that we have both given up.

My Dr has tried several remedies - all with no help, he sent me to a specialist & they couldn't help. I was also referred to a psychiatrist, she says I am normal & need to keep trying.

Is anyone else going through this & if you have discovered the key - please share :)

Answer 1

try another man, if you didn't do that yet..

Answer 2

It takes practice and patience .. you may wanna try doing it on your own or just with hubby watching if you're comfy with that. Go check out Alice .. she's great ;)

Answer 3

When your having s*x try doing a kegal exercise and hold it as long as you can. I know it sounds weird but its just a different sensation.  Hope this helps you.

Answer 4

I was having s*x for a long time (I mean years here, not one session!) before i was able to o****m. I don't think there is a 'key' as such but what I've found is that a lot of it is psychological - maybe spend a little bit of 'you' time exploring what turns you on and what works for you. Or see a s*x therapist who can take you and your lovely husband through what kind of mindset you need to have to reach total satisfaction. You could also explore the tantric method as that works wonders too. Since I had my first o****m with a partner, they've been coming (no pun intended) thick and fast. I o****m every time I have s*x now.

And to everyone who insulted her husband saying he's not a good lover or whatever, you're all incredibly insensitive and ignorant.

Answer 5

first off make sure that you are in the mood. and keep trying different things to spice it up a little bit... maybe like a different area of the house... like the kitchen or something. or if you really wanna change it up you could have a 3some. try new things and find things your comfortable with. but you need to be in the mood. good luck!

if you need any more advice or u need to talk then e-mail me

Answer 6

MAYBE YOU'D HAVE MORE FUN WITH A WOMEN...WHO KNOWS U MIGHT HAVE MORE FUN!?

Answer 7

four years with the same guy, same problem, no solution:( He can't do it, so I take care of myself, but I still put out for him everyday too, and of course he doesn't KNOW this is a problem. Don't find another man. I have actually heard that only 30% of women are capable of having orgasms while having s*x, so whatever, I just figure I am one of those women.  

Answer 8

never met or had a woman i couldn't or didn't satisfy