I have never kissed a boy & i'm 14!?!?!?

Question

right, i'm 14 & i've never kissed a boy, or even held hands! i havn't had a boyfriend since i was 6! and now i like a boy, and he likes me, but he's kissed loads of girls before and i'm scared that if we go out and kiss, he will know that i'd never kissed a boy before, or i'll be a really bad kisser, or i'll just pull away! please help! im frigid & it's making me upset. i want to know how i could practise!!xx

Answer 1

I was 15 when I first kissed someone, and I know he didn't realize.

Besides, what is he going to do? Say, "Oh, I used to like you, but since this is your first kiss, I don't want to go out with you anymore"?

Kissing isn't rocket science; if you go follow the other person's lead and squash that voice that is saying, "kissing is actually WEIRD", you'll quickly get the hang of it.

Answer 2

Calm your butt down! You're 14 it's okay to not have kissed many guys, I mean you're still pretty young. The only way you can get better is to actually do it. Because there's nothing really that will help you practise.

Answer 3

Don't worry about it. I was 15 when i got my very first boyfriend and before then i had never kissed a boy or held hands either. Now I am in the same predicament as you only a little more of a mature conflict. I am with a guy who has s*x and i haven't. I'm sure it's just as intimidating. But don't worry about it. Let him teach you how to kiss. Follow his lead when he kisses you. And tell him that you haven't kissed before, it makes the situation less stressful and he might make the moment more special if he knows it will be your very first kiss. good luck!!!

Answer 4

you dont need to practice he should like you for who you are not if you are a good kisser or not.

Answer 5

Oh you will one day sweetie it just takes time.....don't rush things and besides kissing can lead to other things that can cause alot of consequences

Answer 6

you have nothing to be ashamed about. that's something to be proud of. i recently got married and had never kissed a guy before my husband.

Answer 7

don't worry. there is no need to practice, it will come just natural. when it happens you will know what to do. good luck and have fun :)

Answer 8

Everybodys scared of kissing for their first time but everyone will tell you the same it isnt something you can be prepared for, its something that just comes naturally just go along with it and ull realise its nothing to worry about. And believe me guys can neva tell if youve kissed before or not the first guy i kissed said i was really good cos i just relaxed and went with it and it just comes to you!

Answer 9

I've got similar problems i'm 13 and never kissed a boy held hands or had a boyfriend! But honestly i think you should just tell him. If he doesnt like after then you know that he not the one because otherwise he should respect you. One thing that makes a releationship is honesty. Once he knows i'm sure he will help you practise. your first kiss should be special. Your not frigid , every one is different. Some people rush into things, some people wait for the right person. Me i'm waiting, i dont want to be those type of people who've had loads and loads of bfs, i want 1 guy and i want things to be special, someone i hope to be with for a long time.  

Answer 10

So...

Why the urgently are you dying or something?

Answer 11

I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl and I'm 15.

Answer 12

...no one kissed me 'til I was 17 if that makes you feel better.