I have no friends? I never really had friends?

Question

I guess it s because I'm arrogant I have been that way since I was a kid? should i change. Now more than ever I'm interested in myself. What to do?

Answer 1

First you should ask yourself why you want friends.

Answer 2

pride comes before the fall

Answer 3

What you describe in yourself is a form of narcissism.  The question is what make you so interesting.  The very nature of the question reflects on why you don't have friends.  Yet for all your interest in yourself loneliness creeps in and torments your soul.  You need to learn to humble yourself and you will find that most people are more interesting than yourself.  

Answer 4

Because you are more creative than anyone you know, you have found it easy, less-stressful, more satisfying to take life on your own terms, rather than having life defined for you by a nuerotic gaggle of pressurized peers.  Up to now, you have valued your independence and, in such a case, it is easy to be mistaken as arrogant.

Love yourself and others will follow. . .  

Answer 5

I dont think a person can help being arrogant,its part of some peoples personality.

If you are nice to people they dont always care anyway,or interested in being your friend anyway and you cant persuade people into being your friend,theres no point in trying too hard because it doesnt work if they dont have time for you.

EDIT:First you should ask yourself why you want friends?!

         Whats that supposed to mean?Its normal for people to want to have friends?Isnt it?!

I dont think people should pretend to be humble when its not in their character to be.

Answer 6

If you feel that you are arrogant then you have to change yourself.  To share our feelings friends are more important because only friends are the one whom we can share anything. It may be pleasure, sorrow. So first your decide whether you like to have friends.  

Answer 7

maybe you can stop being so arrogant and be more humble. people dont really like arrogant people.

quotes:

Being humble and noncontentious, the sage earns the love and respect of other people.

Do not show off your ability and it will be more noticeable. Do not think that you are always right and you will be more popular. Do not boast and what you do will be more effective. Do not be arrogant and your actions will endure.

yep. :] hope you get more friends!

Answer 8

you can have friend even if you are happy, sad, serious, have low self-esteem, are loud, silent, etc. you just need to find the right, honest people that like you and have a good time together. all you need is to relate nicely to them and not make them feel bad about themselves.

Answer 9

you should try to be nicer to people and possibly join a group or something to meet new people. if you go out clubbing speak to everyone that way someone will probablly give you their phone number then youve got your self a friend.

i hope that helps =]

Answer 10

Well, look carefully for others who might be like you & might share interests and also might want the same amount of friendship.

For example, if you only want friends once in a while, others might be the same, so you don't have to keep up a friendship with someone  who wants to talk everyday, for example.

Avoid the mistake of trying to be friends with super friendly people, b/c if you are not like that, you're not likely to get along for more than a short time.

Answer 11

arrogance is not a bad.

check urself  regarding the increase the interest in urself is due to the fear of loosing something behind the arrogance/some other fear of loosing something. or not.

if u accepts ur fear heartfully---then everybody and everything become friends to u automatically

if u cover ur fear --- the result will be temporarily and not long live.

Answer 12

I am arrogant, conceited and very self centered and I still have plenty of friends... But a lot of people hate me too!!! Just be yourself..

Answer 13

nah, u shouldnt cuz

friends

will accept u tha way u r!

and never forget where u came from!

Answer 14

oh no wonder you asked that question earlier. anyways, changing would mean not being yourself anymore. if you can handle that and be a lot nicer to people, then i guess you should. and yea, of course you should. it's a negative trait you have there. if you're gonna continue be like this, i guess it's going to be loneliness for you for a long time.  

Answer 15

well arrogance does put people off.  Try to make yourself more approachable and like able and then maybe you can make some new friends.