I have no friends...its getting lonely?

Question

i just started going to a new school bout 4 weeks ago But i didnt really have any friends before that anyway....im sick of sitting at home being lonely all the time ive met some people there that are great but i have yet to invited to do anything ... and i dont want to invite them because well it would be awkward

please dont say the generic stuff thats just stupid..dont recommend "clubs" or "groups" or whatever

Answer 1

instead of WAITING to be invited by those people you just met, why don't YOU invite them to hang out? you shouldn't always count on waiting for people to make the first move. chances are, maybe they are waiting for you to invite them somewhere. you can ask for lunch at school or something...it wouldn't be that awkward as to inviting them to your house or some other place.

Answer 2

turn to your family

Answer 3

jus like say wha u up 2 tonite, n if they dnt invite u then say mind if i tag along. gd luk xx

Answer 4

You should try and talk to them more and get to know them.If you have a myspace you  should see if they got 1 requested them and then you can ask them there if they want to hang out sumtimes, so that way you dont have to do it face to face and it wont feel so akward

Dont listen to the guy  about the smoking that a horrible and stupid idea to make firends.You dont want to get mixed up with the wrong crowd

Answer 5

You seem to me like you don't have much self-confidence. The problem is you never will have friends if you don't learn to speak to people! I know it may seem awkward making the first move in inviting new friends into your social time, but if you wait for other people to make the first move all of your life you'll never get anywhere. Maybe people aren't asking you places because they see you hold back. Start a conversation. Mention a movie you want to see and ask if anyone has seen it, or wants to see it. Ask them directly if they want to go. If they don't just smile and say 'ok maybe next time'. Don't feel embarrassed or let it knock you if they are busy. And just because the idea of going to clubs frightens you doesn't mean it isn't a good idea.

Answer 6

i think you just have to start by sitting near someone and start to talk to them... then maybe if your mother lets you (if youre under age) tell them to go to the mall,,, r invite them to your house to make h.w together...

Answer 7

im in the same boat, hah

but i heard smoking helps meeting people, ive seen a lot of people smoking in my apartment complex, i was thinking of starting, to casually meet them, you could try this!